I live in Texas and will be passing away soon. I am HIV positive and have lived a horrid, selfish life with no accomplishments. Please no pity. I am an adult and have had plenty of opportunities that I have wasted.
I do not want my remains to be valued or visited. That would be a sham. I want to be cremated and my ashes thrown out. I am not interested in any arguments as to how I should view myself or any other such things.
I just want to know how I can make sure that my family does not have the right to go against my wishes as they have made it clear that they will not abide by them.
I have no knowledge of legal things but I assume I will need a will that states my wishes as a starting point but I don't know how to guarantee that upon my death that the will will be put into action since I will have no one to speak for me as I have no one in my life. Since I have no one besides my family, I have no one to contact an attorney or whoever on the event of my death so that my will gets carried out. That means my family will likely get my body and bury me before my wishes and my will are found out if they ever are.
I am so confused as to how to do this since what I really need is the power to speak for myself after I'm dead. I feel helpless in this.
I hope someone can help me figure the legal way to go about this.
I do not want my remains to be valued or visited. That would be a sham. I want to be cremated and my ashes thrown out. I am not interested in any arguments as to how I should view myself or any other such things.
I just want to know how I can make sure that my family does not have the right to go against my wishes as they have made it clear that they will not abide by them.
I have no knowledge of legal things but I assume I will need a will that states my wishes as a starting point but I don't know how to guarantee that upon my death that the will will be put into action since I will have no one to speak for me as I have no one in my life. Since I have no one besides my family, I have no one to contact an attorney or whoever on the event of my death so that my will gets carried out. That means my family will likely get my body and bury me before my wishes and my will are found out if they ever are.
I am so confused as to how to do this since what I really need is the power to speak for myself after I'm dead. I feel helpless in this.
I hope someone can help me figure the legal way to go about this.