The children are 12 and 8 and they have lived in Virginia their whole lives. The wife is telling the husband that he can have full custody of the kids but only if he moves back to Virginia which he has no intentions of doing. Right now he gets his kids for the summer and at certain holidays. They are both being pretty agreeable on joint custoday, that will not be an issue. He just did not know if he could have her served with divorce papers from Tennessee or will he have to hire a Virginia lawyer to handle it?