hotwheels4
Junior Member
Help please! Long question but I didn't want to miss details. I was pretty trashed a couple of nights ago and while I was walking on the street with my boyfriend and friends I started an argument with him and then started to hit and kick him. He pushed me away and I fell on the ground.
Here is where the problem started, the cops saw him push me as they were driving by and immediately pulled over. Arrested him on the spot, when I tried telling them that it was my fault they wouldn't listen. Side note, I'm a white girl and he is a mexican and the cops where all white guys; only saying that bc I feel that race played a part here. Anyway long story short, even though I wasn't pressing charges, due to the cops playing witness and seeing him use "deadly force" on me he was found guilty and has a stay away order placed on him. He can't come within 100 yards of me.
I feel like a total bitch bc at the time I didn't know that I did anything, but after he was taken away my best friend told me that I was the one that started hitting him but she didnt say anything to the cops bc they didn't want me getting arrested. Now I have a boyfriend that I love and we can't see each other.
Is there anyway that the cops can come knock down my door and search my place if they think my boyfriend is inside with me? Not based on loud noises or if they think I am in danger, just simply coming by my place randomly and wanting to search.
Main question, what are the chances of me getting the stay away order removed? Thanks in advance, I am heartbroken over here bc I feel that I have just ruined his life. He has never gotten in trouble before.
Here is where the problem started, the cops saw him push me as they were driving by and immediately pulled over. Arrested him on the spot, when I tried telling them that it was my fault they wouldn't listen. Side note, I'm a white girl and he is a mexican and the cops where all white guys; only saying that bc I feel that race played a part here. Anyway long story short, even though I wasn't pressing charges, due to the cops playing witness and seeing him use "deadly force" on me he was found guilty and has a stay away order placed on him. He can't come within 100 yards of me.
I feel like a total bitch bc at the time I didn't know that I did anything, but after he was taken away my best friend told me that I was the one that started hitting him but she didnt say anything to the cops bc they didn't want me getting arrested. Now I have a boyfriend that I love and we can't see each other.
Is there anyway that the cops can come knock down my door and search my place if they think my boyfriend is inside with me? Not based on loud noises or if they think I am in danger, just simply coming by my place randomly and wanting to search.
Main question, what are the chances of me getting the stay away order removed? Thanks in advance, I am heartbroken over here bc I feel that I have just ruined his life. He has never gotten in trouble before.