morganaleigh
Junior Member
What is the name of your state: New York
I am currently going through my second divorce. My second husband has hired the same lawyer my first husband uses for child custody hearings. The two of them are now sharing information about their respective cases with each other through this lawyer. The allegations made against me by my second husband in the divorce are now turning up in custody hearings with my first husband. Is this legal, and is there anything I can do to stop them from essentially ganging up on me? Also, my first husband has granted visitation with our daughter to my second husband and his family, at my second husband's home, which was kept secret from me until my daughter told me. They now have more time with her than I do. We have joint custody (he has physical placement right now, due in part to some of the divorce allegations), and I don't feel it is in my daughter's best interest to be around my second husband because of the divorce, which has turned quite nasty, and he has already told her it is my fault we are getting divorced (she is 7). What can I do about this whole situation?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
I am currently going through my second divorce. My second husband has hired the same lawyer my first husband uses for child custody hearings. The two of them are now sharing information about their respective cases with each other through this lawyer. The allegations made against me by my second husband in the divorce are now turning up in custody hearings with my first husband. Is this legal, and is there anything I can do to stop them from essentially ganging up on me? Also, my first husband has granted visitation with our daughter to my second husband and his family, at my second husband's home, which was kept secret from me until my daughter told me. They now have more time with her than I do. We have joint custody (he has physical placement right now, due in part to some of the divorce allegations), and I don't feel it is in my daughter's best interest to be around my second husband because of the divorce, which has turned quite nasty, and he has already told her it is my fault we are getting divorced (she is 7). What can I do about this whole situation?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?