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mooncookie
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RE: Domestic violence and custody
My sister recently filed for divorce. She has 3 children (all boys), ages 2, 11, 13.5. She had been married 17 years. Her husband beat the s--t out of her when he found out there was another man involved ... it wasn't until then that he finally signed the divorce papers. He had been staying at his mothers some of the times. My sister agreed to let him stay for the easter weekend since his mother had family over. My sister also led him to believe that these next 180 days would be a trial separation, and not necessarily mean things were completely over. On Good Friday she went to stay at my parents. She called him and left a message "I'm at my parents...and going to bed now." When he got home, he went to my parents to talk to her. Well she was not there. He found out some way or another that she was with her boyfriend. Well he went crazy!! He called me @11:30 pm. Told me to get my black dress ready...and that he was going to put a bullet to her head and her boyfriends. I was scared he was serious so decided to call his sister. She had no car and asked me to drive her to his house. When we got there he was so upset..." how could she do this" He did have a gun and knife. We talked to him until 3am, took the gun and knife from him and left. My sister had got wind of all this ... and decided in the interest of all those involved she had to leave. Well she did ...with her boyfriend who is in the Air Force stationed in COLORADO!! She left all the children!!! (which I could not come to terms with at all). My mother wants me to go to the sheriff and have it on record that I saw the guns and knife and that his sister took them away. I told her I did not want to do that. My mother is now mad at me and told my older sister " It will be a cold day in hell before I ever talk to her again!!"
Please help!!! I want to do the right thing by everyone, but especially for those caught in the middle...the children. PLEASE advise.
Thanks,
BG (Louisiana)
My sister recently filed for divorce. She has 3 children (all boys), ages 2, 11, 13.5. She had been married 17 years. Her husband beat the s--t out of her when he found out there was another man involved ... it wasn't until then that he finally signed the divorce papers. He had been staying at his mothers some of the times. My sister agreed to let him stay for the easter weekend since his mother had family over. My sister also led him to believe that these next 180 days would be a trial separation, and not necessarily mean things were completely over. On Good Friday she went to stay at my parents. She called him and left a message "I'm at my parents...and going to bed now." When he got home, he went to my parents to talk to her. Well she was not there. He found out some way or another that she was with her boyfriend. Well he went crazy!! He called me @11:30 pm. Told me to get my black dress ready...and that he was going to put a bullet to her head and her boyfriends. I was scared he was serious so decided to call his sister. She had no car and asked me to drive her to his house. When we got there he was so upset..." how could she do this" He did have a gun and knife. We talked to him until 3am, took the gun and knife from him and left. My sister had got wind of all this ... and decided in the interest of all those involved she had to leave. Well she did ...with her boyfriend who is in the Air Force stationed in COLORADO!! She left all the children!!! (which I could not come to terms with at all). My mother wants me to go to the sheriff and have it on record that I saw the guns and knife and that his sister took them away. I told her I did not want to do that. My mother is now mad at me and told my older sister " It will be a cold day in hell before I ever talk to her again!!"
Please help!!! I want to do the right thing by everyone, but especially for those caught in the middle...the children. PLEASE advise.
Thanks,
BG (Louisiana)