Sperm Donor
i'm not trying to be mean here but a couple of question: was there a dna test? was he the only man in your life when you got pregnant? i'm in indiana and my sister-in-law passed away her husband was put in jail after her death because of a whole lot of arrest warrants on him but anway she left her 3 kids to myself and her brother (my husband) but he tryed getting custody from jail he couldn't do anything until he got out and when he did get out his lawyer got him temporary supervised visitation i was the supevised person but then he swore under oath that all 3 kids was his biological kids there was a test done for the fact that we knew from the kids mother that the oldest boy was from another man we also knew from her having him before she got with this guy, he then was denied any visitation with the oldest boy but we asked they boy if he wanted to visit with him he said yes so i guess we did a good deed for a sorry excuse of a man, he ended up going back to jail and called me collect and demanding me to bring the kids to jail for a visit, i laughed so hard and told him to get a life he then said well let me talk to the kids i laughed even harder, he said he would have me in contempt if i didn't let him see them or talk to them, i told him to go for it, i then contacted my lawyer and he told me for a man being in jail has got to have balls to request to see or talk to kids while being incarcerated, his lawyer asked the judge for him to see them while in jail the judge denied his request, so i guess in my case it worked out to where the kids didn't have to see a part of life that their father made for his self. Good luck to you like everyone says wait for a court order then and there you will be able to fight it.