dianacuevas622
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
My ex has been contacting me via email, text, and phone. She wants me to give her a second chance and get back with her as well as pay back money she had lent me to purchase my car which i was paying back until we broke up, 7/4/2014. No written contract, only emails stating the balance. I broke up with her because she choked me and threatened to kill me (I have it on video). It was an abusive relationship. The day of the break up she wouldn't let me leave her room, she choked me, and threatened to kill me and herself. I refuse to talk or see her now. From the 2,500 she lent me, there is only about 600 dollars left to pay. I don't believe i should pay back the rest of the money because I had to move since she would show up at my apartment after the break up. I am unemployed now. I have her blocked but she still contacts me via text apps and by blocking her number whenever she calls. I am in a new healthy relationship but this is causing stress in my relationship. Should i send her a copy of the video i have from the break up where she chokes me and threatens to kill me along with a cease and desist letter? I don't want to have to deal with court and attorney's since i am currently unemployed and dont have any money, but i need this to stop. Any advise????
My ex has been contacting me via email, text, and phone. She wants me to give her a second chance and get back with her as well as pay back money she had lent me to purchase my car which i was paying back until we broke up, 7/4/2014. No written contract, only emails stating the balance. I broke up with her because she choked me and threatened to kill me (I have it on video). It was an abusive relationship. The day of the break up she wouldn't let me leave her room, she choked me, and threatened to kill me and herself. I refuse to talk or see her now. From the 2,500 she lent me, there is only about 600 dollars left to pay. I don't believe i should pay back the rest of the money because I had to move since she would show up at my apartment after the break up. I am unemployed now. I have her blocked but she still contacts me via text apps and by blocking her number whenever she calls. I am in a new healthy relationship but this is causing stress in my relationship. Should i send her a copy of the video i have from the break up where she chokes me and threatens to kill me along with a cease and desist letter? I don't want to have to deal with court and attorney's since i am currently unemployed and dont have any money, but i need this to stop. Any advise????