What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
Ex-parte protective order covering petitioner, husband and child served on me.
Allegations: Stalking; contacting her husband
Incidents cited:
I showed up at my husband's work. Petitioner pulled into lot; we had conversation. Police came by, she was asked to leave after explanation (inappropriate relationship with husband). She claims "conversation became so heated, police responded and" I was asked to go on my way.
I left a counseling appointment; came out to my car. I saw her pull into lot across form me. I took pix with my phone (implied threat of harm to me since first incident). She pulled out; I left. I was behind her for probably 1-3 miles. At stop, she made u-turn and went back way we'd just come from. She claims I followed her 3/4 of the way to her home. I went home or may have stopped at store, but I thought she went back to building we'd been at.
I called the hospital she works at to complain of inappropriate relationship (after I had factual and convincing proof) between her and my husband. I had to make several calls at different times and talk with different people; but it never went anywhere. I told them I might picket the hospital regarding the incident (lawful, I understood, as long as I stayed within legal bounds).
Also stated that I had contacted her husband several times. I contacted him once by phone after I was told that he might harm me if I "made trouble" for his wife. It turned out that he was aware that something was going on. We talked and compared notes, wished each other well. He said I could contact him again if I needed to. After finding a long letter in my bedroom that my husband hid, I sent him an e-mail with the last page and the info that my husband had added a cell phone on our account for her to avoid detection when they communicated. He contacted me and wanted to meet; asked if he can have copy of letter. I agreed.
I don't want this petition just "hanging out" without the facts being more clear. I have audio of the conversation in the parking lot of my husband's work and assume I can check with the officer who came by regarding statement or appearance. I have the counseling receipt (which was actually for the situation going on with her). I have a legal right to complain about a breach of professional ethics-I was never provided a copy of their grievance policy, just passed from person to person. And I have the e-mails from husband requesting we meet. He was not a signatory party to the p.o; I doubt he knows it exists. Probably to keep me from recontacting him.
I don't think she can show or prove that I am/was stalking her, although someone told me you can get a p.o. against anyone if you feel threatened. Looking things up, but any guidance appreciated. Thanks.
Ex-parte protective order covering petitioner, husband and child served on me.
Allegations: Stalking; contacting her husband
Incidents cited:
I showed up at my husband's work. Petitioner pulled into lot; we had conversation. Police came by, she was asked to leave after explanation (inappropriate relationship with husband). She claims "conversation became so heated, police responded and" I was asked to go on my way.
I left a counseling appointment; came out to my car. I saw her pull into lot across form me. I took pix with my phone (implied threat of harm to me since first incident). She pulled out; I left. I was behind her for probably 1-3 miles. At stop, she made u-turn and went back way we'd just come from. She claims I followed her 3/4 of the way to her home. I went home or may have stopped at store, but I thought she went back to building we'd been at.
I called the hospital she works at to complain of inappropriate relationship (after I had factual and convincing proof) between her and my husband. I had to make several calls at different times and talk with different people; but it never went anywhere. I told them I might picket the hospital regarding the incident (lawful, I understood, as long as I stayed within legal bounds).
Also stated that I had contacted her husband several times. I contacted him once by phone after I was told that he might harm me if I "made trouble" for his wife. It turned out that he was aware that something was going on. We talked and compared notes, wished each other well. He said I could contact him again if I needed to. After finding a long letter in my bedroom that my husband hid, I sent him an e-mail with the last page and the info that my husband had added a cell phone on our account for her to avoid detection when they communicated. He contacted me and wanted to meet; asked if he can have copy of letter. I agreed.
I don't want this petition just "hanging out" without the facts being more clear. I have audio of the conversation in the parking lot of my husband's work and assume I can check with the officer who came by regarding statement or appearance. I have the counseling receipt (which was actually for the situation going on with her). I have a legal right to complain about a breach of professional ethics-I was never provided a copy of their grievance policy, just passed from person to person. And I have the e-mails from husband requesting we meet. He was not a signatory party to the p.o; I doubt he knows it exists. Probably to keep me from recontacting him.
I don't think she can show or prove that I am/was stalking her, although someone told me you can get a p.o. against anyone if you feel threatened. Looking things up, but any guidance appreciated. Thanks.
