unluckyduck
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
I have a dilemma with a neighbor who is completely unaware a problem exists. As is, I am hoping for some advice.
We are residents in a housing project where there are many common outdoor areas. I participate in an informal group of resident gardeners who adopt a particular gardening plot. While there is an unwritten and common sense code not to add or remove any items from any of the individual gardens, it is not unusual for things to disappear. Since mine is in a high traffic area I get hit more often than most. Over time, this has worn on me and I must admit my area is less appealing as a result. Where once I had many containers and decorative items (my theme is ducks) I'm down to two containers and two ducks. One of the ducks was a vintage decoy.
Adding to the lousy timing of things, I am also in the process of downsizing and selling off various possessions. I had a visit from a person I contacted to do a walk through with me and give me estimates on how much I should expect to sell things for. The estimate for the vintage decoy duck was $50. It happens that the exact decoy duck sold the same week on ebay for $ 75.
I was very disturbed to check the garden and discover the decoy duck was missing. Especially considering I had recently decided to sell it and $ 50-75 is a significant contrbution to the total I am hoping to achieve. I am so worn over my personal property items being re appropriated! It maddens me! This day I spent several hours in my room, expressing my upset with a friend on the telephone and working on a sign. I decided not to white-wash it this time but to call it what it is: "RETURN THE DUCK NOW - AND QUIT STEALING".
When I went to install the sign, the duck was back. Painted. Painted in bizarre colors. Now valueless and unsellable to collectors of vintage decoy ducks. I was speechless! I gotta admit it was a great mystery to me why someone would take that particular duck because it had none of the usual appeal. Now, in its current state, it saddens me and nauseates me so that I am avoiding walking by and being reminded that this has happened.
I think in a fair world, my neighbor should buy the duck at a price ranging from $50 to $75. I don't thnk there is any way to put a value on the trauma he has caused me. And all the while he seems to think he has done a good thing taking that old gray worn out duck and giving it a fresh look. I would appreciate any comments from here.
I have a dilemma with a neighbor who is completely unaware a problem exists. As is, I am hoping for some advice.
We are residents in a housing project where there are many common outdoor areas. I participate in an informal group of resident gardeners who adopt a particular gardening plot. While there is an unwritten and common sense code not to add or remove any items from any of the individual gardens, it is not unusual for things to disappear. Since mine is in a high traffic area I get hit more often than most. Over time, this has worn on me and I must admit my area is less appealing as a result. Where once I had many containers and decorative items (my theme is ducks) I'm down to two containers and two ducks. One of the ducks was a vintage decoy.
Adding to the lousy timing of things, I am also in the process of downsizing and selling off various possessions. I had a visit from a person I contacted to do a walk through with me and give me estimates on how much I should expect to sell things for. The estimate for the vintage decoy duck was $50. It happens that the exact decoy duck sold the same week on ebay for $ 75.
I was very disturbed to check the garden and discover the decoy duck was missing. Especially considering I had recently decided to sell it and $ 50-75 is a significant contrbution to the total I am hoping to achieve. I am so worn over my personal property items being re appropriated! It maddens me! This day I spent several hours in my room, expressing my upset with a friend on the telephone and working on a sign. I decided not to white-wash it this time but to call it what it is: "RETURN THE DUCK NOW - AND QUIT STEALING".
When I went to install the sign, the duck was back. Painted. Painted in bizarre colors. Now valueless and unsellable to collectors of vintage decoy ducks. I was speechless! I gotta admit it was a great mystery to me why someone would take that particular duck because it had none of the usual appeal. Now, in its current state, it saddens me and nauseates me so that I am avoiding walking by and being reminded that this has happened.
I think in a fair world, my neighbor should buy the duck at a price ranging from $50 to $75. I don't thnk there is any way to put a value on the trauma he has caused me. And all the while he seems to think he has done a good thing taking that old gray worn out duck and giving it a fresh look. I would appreciate any comments from here.