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She stole from me and I have concrete proof

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belminf

Junior Member
Good morning everyone.

[Jurisdiction: I am from NYC (as is the person who stole from me). The crime occurred in a party in New Jersey]

A former HS classmate stole my Treo smartphone from me in a party. It is worth about $400. I actually made a site with all the evidence:

http://iambelmin.com/and_vanessa_stole_my_treo/

Originally, it was just to show all my friends the evidence and to see if they agree. Now that it seems that mostly everyone seems to agree with me, I wanted to move on with my options. Several questions:

1) Should I put the site down? It has already served it's purpose--to be able to present the evidence to our circle and to be able to hear their opinions about the whole thing. Would it hurt me legally? I was told that it could be defamation but I also heard that as long as I don't intentionally spread lies, I am fine. But is there any other way it could hurt me legally?

2) I have not reported it stolen just because I was hoping I would receive it back. Is this a necessary step? How would I go about it?

3) Is it even worth going to small claims for it? As far as monetary that is. I won't care as long as I break even. I just wouldn't want her to get away with it. Would a judge even listen to a case of about $500 (Cellphone, SIM card and SD card lost). How about personal information I had on there? Is that worth anything?

Thank you for any guidance you are able to offer me!
--Belmin
 


fairisfair

Senior Member
Thanks Y.A.G.

How about concerns 1 and 2 from original message? Anybody?
as for reporting it stolen, you pick up the phone and call the police. Please, do not dial 911

IMHO, I would take down the site. Take care of your problem in the legal manner.
 

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