What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New York (not City of)
I have an interesting predicament. I have an abusive ex who damaged property and technically stole some items from me.
1) Computer: he asked if he could "borrow" it over 1 year ago, has not returned it, and has ignored demands for its return (sent certified mail)
2) Bedroom Set: he removed it when he moved out without my knowledge (I wasn't home when he moved out). He has ignored demands for its return. I do have proof of purchase.
3) Car Damage: he showed up at a restaurant and attacked my car in the parking lot while I was eating. He was witnessed kicking in the door and someone called the police. They arrived, took witness statements and went off to arrest him. I stupidly decided not to press charges that night. I've been told I have 7 years to press charges.
4) Horses: I paid for several horses (I have proof of sale for them). He took them off to his brother's farm. He has never paid me for them. I've heard rumors that he drew up a fake "bill of sale" from me to him and he's claiming that he owns them because of this.
I guess what I'm trying to determine is what actions I should take and in what order. I know I can sue him in small claims court for the items he removed from my apartment. But is there a criminal case? And should I sue him for the damage to my car or press criminal charges? Or both? And in what order? I would really like to see him brought to justice for the lasting damage he's made, I just want to get pointed in the right direction.
Any help would be appreciated!
I have an interesting predicament. I have an abusive ex who damaged property and technically stole some items from me.
1) Computer: he asked if he could "borrow" it over 1 year ago, has not returned it, and has ignored demands for its return (sent certified mail)
2) Bedroom Set: he removed it when he moved out without my knowledge (I wasn't home when he moved out). He has ignored demands for its return. I do have proof of purchase.
3) Car Damage: he showed up at a restaurant and attacked my car in the parking lot while I was eating. He was witnessed kicking in the door and someone called the police. They arrived, took witness statements and went off to arrest him. I stupidly decided not to press charges that night. I've been told I have 7 years to press charges.
4) Horses: I paid for several horses (I have proof of sale for them). He took them off to his brother's farm. He has never paid me for them. I've heard rumors that he drew up a fake "bill of sale" from me to him and he's claiming that he owns them because of this.
I guess what I'm trying to determine is what actions I should take and in what order. I know I can sue him in small claims court for the items he removed from my apartment. But is there a criminal case? And should I sue him for the damage to my car or press criminal charges? Or both? And in what order? I would really like to see him brought to justice for the lasting damage he's made, I just want to get pointed in the right direction.
Any help would be appreciated!