I gave full custody to him.He was living with his parents, and I thought that enviroment was better for my son. He promised at the time that I could see my son at least three times a week.That's my fault for getting that in writing. Since the birth of my son , I am successfully receiving treatment at a methadone clinic, and am almost done. Since the birth of my son, my ex. has violated his felony probation seven times. His current g.f has party plates on her car and needs to blow in order to start her car. She drives my son around all the time, since my ex. has a suspended license, which he violated twice recently. My point is, that I doing everything right. The grandmother just blames me for her son's mistakes, and it's not good for my son.