icefirenze
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? California.
I am being sued in small claims court by an ex-boyfriend for money he gave me when I purchased my home. He signed a "gift letter" during my real estate deal, that the money is a gift, and not expected to be repaid.
But he's claiming we had a verbal agreement otherwise. Is there any chance at all that his claims of verbal agreements will have any weight over what's in writing?
If so, any advice on how to best show, that like many other things in our relationship, his story was continually changing. I do admit that we spoke about it being a loan if we ever broke up, but wouldn't have to pay it back if we stayed together (obviously.) But I'm worried that he won't admit the other conversations, like the one where he told me I deserved the money, and he was happy that he gave it to me.
If it matters, we basically lived together. I lived at his house until he told me that we couldn't live together since it went against his religious beliefs. So, I got my house, and he lived at my house every day after that, until we broke up. (A good example of his ever changing sense of self.) Other than the gift money, he never contributed to my mortgage or bills. (We shared food expenses, but that's it.) I did not contribute to his mortgage or bills while I was staying with him, either.
I am being sued in small claims court by an ex-boyfriend for money he gave me when I purchased my home. He signed a "gift letter" during my real estate deal, that the money is a gift, and not expected to be repaid.
But he's claiming we had a verbal agreement otherwise. Is there any chance at all that his claims of verbal agreements will have any weight over what's in writing?
If so, any advice on how to best show, that like many other things in our relationship, his story was continually changing. I do admit that we spoke about it being a loan if we ever broke up, but wouldn't have to pay it back if we stayed together (obviously.) But I'm worried that he won't admit the other conversations, like the one where he told me I deserved the money, and he was happy that he gave it to me.
If it matters, we basically lived together. I lived at his house until he told me that we couldn't live together since it went against his religious beliefs. So, I got my house, and he lived at my house every day after that, until we broke up. (A good example of his ever changing sense of self.) Other than the gift money, he never contributed to my mortgage or bills. (We shared food expenses, but that's it.) I did not contribute to his mortgage or bills while I was staying with him, either.