Whats the deal With this situaution?

[smurfconfusion]

My state is California.
So I met this guy online who said he wanted to have a Boy he could spoil in a daddy-son type situation. It went OK for a while and I had a boyfriend at the time which didn't interfere. He bought me mainly dinners, but also gave me a phone to use and a laptop. The guy was also seeing other boys on the side but I don't know what he did for them. I was also escorting for other people at the time. When I wanted to stop that type of relationship and live a normal life I told him lets bump our relationship down to just friends and gave him his things back. He started acting juvenile because I wasn't really hanging out with him and hadn't given him my new phone number and is claiming I need to be stopped for all my lies and he wants to do something. Is there anything legal he can actually do?

 

[Antigone*]

My state is California.
So I met this guy online who said he wanted to have a Boy he could spoil in a daddy-son type situation. It went OK for a while and I had a boyfriend at the time which didn't interfere. He bought me mainly dinners, but also gave me a phone to use and a laptop. The guy was also seeing other boys on the side but I don't know what he did for them. I was also escorting for other people at the time. When I wanted to stop that type of relationship and live a normal life I told him lets bump our relationship down to just friends and gave him his things back. He started acting juvenile because I wasn't really hanging out with him and hadn't given him my new phone number and is claiming I need to be stopped for all my lies and he wants to do something. Is there anything legal he can actually do?

Really

You must have us confused with boy toys anonymous.

 

[Zigner]

My state is California.
So I met this guy online who said he wanted to have a Boy he could spoil in a daddy-son type situation. It went OK for a while and I had a boyfriend at the time which didn't interfere. He bought me mainly dinners, but also gave me a phone to use and a laptop. The guy was also seeing other boys on the side but I don't know what he did for them. I was also escorting for other people at the time. When I wanted to stop that type of relationship and live a normal life I told him lets bump our relationship down to just friends and gave him his things back. He started acting juvenile because I wasn't really hanging out with him and hadn't given him my new phone number and is claiming I need to be stopped for all my lies and he wants to do something. Is there anything legal he can actually do?

It does happen...but it's pretty silly for a John to turn in a prostitute when things go south (so to speak)

 

[Ohiogal]

The Unclean hands doctrine applies.

(I won't even comment on what else might be unclean.)

 

[Antigone*]

The Unclean hands doctrine applies.

(I won't even comment on what else might be unclean.)

My laptop thanks you.


Now pour me a glass of wine OG!!!

 

[smurfconfusion]

hmm the unclean hands doctrine seemed to be good advice. Thank you

 

[smurfconfusion]

The Unclean hands doctrine applies.

(I won't even comment on what else might be unclean.)

Actually can I ask one more question. Is there anyway this person could try and turn it around and say I used him? Like he try to deny his wanting to "spoil" me or something else I haven't thought of?
Of course from the feedback I get that everyone is disgusted however your help is greatly appreciated and I thank you.
And just so you know, I have come to terms with my actions being a bad choice and the whole point is me trying to live a normal life and repent as much as I can from what I had done to my body and soul.

 

[sandyclaus]

Actually can I ask one more question. Is there anyway this person could try and turn it around and say I used him? Like he try to deny his wanting to "spoil" me or something else I haven't thought of?
Of course from the feedback I get that everyone is disgusted however your help is greatly appreciated and I thank you.
And just so you know, I have come to terms with my actions being a bad choice and the whole point is me trying to live a normal life and repent as much as I can from what I had done to my body and soul.

The person can say what he wants. Maybe he does feel used (and well-used, as you have described the relationship), so that wouldn't necessarily be far from the truth, so it wouldn't really be defamation of any sort, would it? And since it wouldn't be defamation, there wouldn't really be any damages, and with no damages, it wouldn't really be legally actionable.

Sounds to me that you need to come to terms that relationships go south and stuff happens like this. Let the other person say what he wants, walk away, and be done with it (as you seem to be doing).