What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? MI
I am a bit confused because of what I have been trying to read on-line and in the information that I received from SSI.
Our 28 yr old son was finally approved for SSDI this past summer. His diagnosis was Asperger's with learning disabilities. Because of his impulsiveness and immaturity, it was decided by SSDI that our son needed a "payee" and he asked if I could/would be. After answering all of their questions, verbally and written, apparently I qualified. My questions I think are a bit too detailed to be actually addressed in print .. I guess?? I am confused and worried that I might do something illegal and just want to do this all correctly .. so I won't be hurting any benefits son is receiving.
The rep at our local SSDI office gave me the specific way the "payee" account was supposed to be set up and that seems to be all good. All monies (except some retro SSI payments) have been going directly into that account. There have been a few large sum SSDI retro payments that went directly into that account and they still sit there.
What was indicated to me, by son's SSDI rep, is that because he only just qualified for the SSI for a year (and NOW he is just receiving SSDI) we do not have to worry about spending down the retro payments in a certain time period. Am I understanding that correctly?
I am understanding that I am supposed to be (and have been) tracking how all of his monthly monies are spent. That is very easy. But .. I got the impression .. again, from the SSDI rep, that our son really should be "required" to pay my husband and I "rent". She indicated that $500 per month would be fair. I think I got the impression that they would almost be "requiring" that? Otherwise he could be "cut off" from the SSDI? Is that correct?
Next question is in regards to the bank account that is set up that all monies have gone into. Can that money be moved to a different (I'm thinking) interest bearing account? Basically .. for the retro sums?
Also .. on those retro lump sum monies .. am I supposed to be keeping tally on how those are spent? I mean, do I .. should I ... be keeping the "reins" on that money, so son doesnt' spend it foolishly. .. And he would! (I thought I understood that I was ..but just clarifying to pass on to son. ;-)
When we do give son (a little bit .. or some) of those retro lump sum monies, do I need to "track"? I can totally understand tracking those monthly amounts that he is "living" on .. but am a bit embarrassed on a couple of things that we allowed him to spend some of those monies on. A new stereo (couple hundred) and some birthday gifts for girlfriend ..stuff like that. Consequently, that is why I have those "specific" questions about tracking those lump sum monies, etc ..
Thanks in advance for any light you can shed on this for me.