mysterypanda09
Junior Member
Kansas
i have always been my sons ssi payee since birth. i was divorced in 2002. social security has been on my back since. I received $380.00 a month alimony until last year. my son received $385.00 child support. my son now 18 still receives child support in the amount of $385.00 a month and ssi- his last year in high school. last year i was told i had a over payment of $4,000 and my son had a under payment of $5,000. his went into a saving account. mine they are taking out monthly $68.00 of my $675.00 each month. my sons ssi is determed by his child support each month. his $385.00 comes bi-weekly. where the clerk of courts sends in at the end of each month ,to a woman named pam at the ss office. who sends me a letter stating what my son will recieve each month in ssi. but i was told they are still guessing what and how his child support falls each month. for the last 4 months he has reveived $316.00 a month which can no way be the same each month. based on how many weeks in a month.
as far as his under payment i was told to send recipts to pam and get her permission before i take any monies out of his account. the first $2,000.00 i did. the remaining amount $2,678.00 i did not. using it for housing food clothing his school, his needs and wants. now she says i have 2 days to prove what this money was used for and she will tell me if i used it right or not if not i have to repay this out of my $604.00 a month. i have asked her to allow me to repay mine and then if she wants money put back into the account. then repay his she said no. and now that my son is 18 and i am still his payee i have to put his ssi in a account. she says his child support should be what i use. i do not under stand i have always used the monies for housing food clothing school his wants and needs. she said it is now different and i must keep track of how his money is spent and rent and bills have to be equally devided because my son will contuine to live with me he can not live on his own at this time.
this has me so upset i am now just crying i feel she is just upset because we got such a large amount through the divorce and told me her 2 children only receive $25.00 each a month.
can you please help me under stand why this woman is being so hard to deal with. even the trustee of court and i hired a lawyer to look over the over payment under payment and feel it should have been brought to my attention before the alimony was over. but the lawyer agreed with ssi and the trustee does not.
help!
i have always been my sons ssi payee since birth. i was divorced in 2002. social security has been on my back since. I received $380.00 a month alimony until last year. my son received $385.00 child support. my son now 18 still receives child support in the amount of $385.00 a month and ssi- his last year in high school. last year i was told i had a over payment of $4,000 and my son had a under payment of $5,000. his went into a saving account. mine they are taking out monthly $68.00 of my $675.00 each month. my sons ssi is determed by his child support each month. his $385.00 comes bi-weekly. where the clerk of courts sends in at the end of each month ,to a woman named pam at the ss office. who sends me a letter stating what my son will recieve each month in ssi. but i was told they are still guessing what and how his child support falls each month. for the last 4 months he has reveived $316.00 a month which can no way be the same each month. based on how many weeks in a month.
as far as his under payment i was told to send recipts to pam and get her permission before i take any monies out of his account. the first $2,000.00 i did. the remaining amount $2,678.00 i did not. using it for housing food clothing his school, his needs and wants. now she says i have 2 days to prove what this money was used for and she will tell me if i used it right or not if not i have to repay this out of my $604.00 a month. i have asked her to allow me to repay mine and then if she wants money put back into the account. then repay his she said no. and now that my son is 18 and i am still his payee i have to put his ssi in a account. she says his child support should be what i use. i do not under stand i have always used the monies for housing food clothing school his wants and needs. she said it is now different and i must keep track of how his money is spent and rent and bills have to be equally devided because my son will contuine to live with me he can not live on his own at this time.
this has me so upset i am now just crying i feel she is just upset because we got such a large amount through the divorce and told me her 2 children only receive $25.00 each a month.
can you please help me under stand why this woman is being so hard to deal with. even the trustee of court and i hired a lawyer to look over the over payment under payment and feel it should have been brought to my attention before the alimony was over. but the lawyer agreed with ssi and the trustee does not.
help!