What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I do not have a car, but was driving my boyfriend's car one day.*I miscalculated a yellow light and ran a red— of course, we got a ticket in the mail a few days later —for $500!! The ticket is in my boyfriend's name, but it is clearly a woman driving the vehicle. Everything I have looked up says that in the state of California, you are not required by law to name the driver to the police or the judge, if the driver in the picture is not you. All you are required to do is provide evidence that the driver is not you —*in this case, the driver is obviously not my boyfriend. He does not want to go in front of the judge because he thinks the judge is going to press him for the identity of the driver and find him guilty, which would lead to points in his license. So now he is going to just turn me in, which, from everything I have read, seems completely unnecessary. $500 is a lot of money, and I just don't have it. I can't seem to convince him that the ticket will most likely be dismissed and that he does not have to say anything except that the person in the picture is not him. He is concerned about perjury and points going to his license. The whole situation is causing an undue amount of stress in our relationship- help!
I do not have a car, but was driving my boyfriend's car one day.*I miscalculated a yellow light and ran a red— of course, we got a ticket in the mail a few days later —for $500!! The ticket is in my boyfriend's name, but it is clearly a woman driving the vehicle. Everything I have looked up says that in the state of California, you are not required by law to name the driver to the police or the judge, if the driver in the picture is not you. All you are required to do is provide evidence that the driver is not you —*in this case, the driver is obviously not my boyfriend. He does not want to go in front of the judge because he thinks the judge is going to press him for the identity of the driver and find him guilty, which would lead to points in his license. So now he is going to just turn me in, which, from everything I have read, seems completely unnecessary. $500 is a lot of money, and I just don't have it. I can't seem to convince him that the ticket will most likely be dismissed and that he does not have to say anything except that the person in the picture is not him. He is concerned about perjury and points going to his license. The whole situation is causing an undue amount of stress in our relationship- help!