Well... maybe I should rethink my expressions of esteem for you. Seems I make a couple of nice statements about you and I get a series of posts explaining what an a$$hole I am.
Certainly not how it was intended, but it is not my attitude that raises the hackles of so many.
Above I see a very respectful post from me about you and several benign posts that I followed with stating my opinions. However, I see your responses being directed squarely at me, judgemental in nature and quite caustic in tone.
That was not how they were intended. If you read them that way, I'm sorry. I respect your knowledge, but I do not respect the way you attack those who disagree with you.
I will simply have to disagree with your perspective of my posts. It is, after all, just your perspective and not etched in stone as you so zealously pointed out to me. I do, however, remember a number of threads where you engaged in just the adament behaviour you are denouncing. When presented with a differing opinion based on statutory and case law, your responses would become more evasive of a direct answer, but no less unyielding.
Jim, I suspect that if you look back you will find that any negative responses were after being beaten over the head and shoulders about what an idiot I am, or how I am a shill for the government, or some other comment about my error. You tend to turn disagreement into personal attacks. That is what turns many people off.
I have seen you make many outlandish statements that are contrary to law and/or the public trust.
"Outlandish" being your opinion, not a matter of fact carved in stone. Again, because you believe it to be in error does not make it so.
Maybe the thin air up on your pedestal has clouded your judgement, but you are not the angel, nor the soothing communicator you seem to think you are.
I never thought I was either. But, I am used to dealing with caustic and hot headed individuals on a regular basis so I tend to be a long time coming in getting too ruffled by them.
Many of your statements are as corrosive (or moreso) than anything I have ever said... you are simply quieter when you say it.
You really think so?
Okay.
I know you and I differ on many opinions. Apparently you are put off by the fact that I challenge you.
Challenge I don't care about. Insulting and demeaning replies that attack the messenger, I do. There are people here that disagree frequently without being insulting about it. It can be done, Jim.
You see that as poor bedside manner on my part... I see that as arrogance and narrow-mindedness on yours. I know that in some threads, you have been downright P.O.ed with my refusal to accept your opinion as gospel.
Sorry you see it that way. And i don't think I have ever been P.O.'d that you would not accept something at gospel, but there ARE some things that I can speak to that others cannot ... such as what happens behind closed doors of law enforcement agencies and in management meetings. If you don't accept those observations as gospel, so be it.
I'm sorry that I have yet to recieve my membership card in the Carl fan club
I don't even have a membership card in such a place.
... but I can't seem to get over the irony of you telling me that I should be more gentle in my approach in an increasingly aggressive manner over three posts. Maybe some self-evaluation should be in order here.
That was not my intent, Jim. I made a couple benign comment on your "bedside manner" in an attempt to provide what I erroneously thought might be helpful advice on how to avoid getting into daily pissing matches and you took exception to it. Sorry about it. If you like being confrontational, then I guess we'll just let it go at that. To each his own.
If you took exception to my posts, sorry. Rehashing the reasons why I - and many of those here - take exception to many of your posts is not necessary. So, I tried, you disagree, and I am sorry if you took exception with my intent.
My apologies. I will go on no further.
- Carl