Simpledude,
I am a bit confused WRT your post. I-81 does not traverse through Prince William County. However, I-66 does between mile marker 38 and mile marker 50.
To answer your question, yes, you can "talk down" a reckless driving charge, but you have to have a better excuse than the one you provided to the arresting[?] officer. Sometimes the officer is unable to be at the court at the time you are present. In this case, most people I have spoken to usually get the ticket reduced to speeding (9 miles over), which is the lowest speed you can be fined for (or so I was told by the Judge

). One thing you DON'T want to do is miss your court date! My significant other missed a court date on a reckless driving charge in PWC and our auto insurance practically doubled and hasn't dropped since, and that was back in 1998! Hiring a lawyer is going to cost you more than the ticket itself, but is well worth it if he can get the charge dropped (which most likely he/she can).
Good luck!