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blueeyes14424
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What is the name of your state? ny
When my ex-husband and I were last in court for child support issues (which he has been dodging for years) his attorney asked that I sign an escrow check my ex had received made out to both of us (My name is still on our mortgage) and I replied with "I'll sign it when he gets my name off the house by refinancing", however, the hearing examiner simply nodded her head. Nothing was written in the order pertaining to this check. I have received two letters from my attorney stating that I must come into her office and sign this check over to my ex, she said I can't change my mind - I have to do it. I never said I would just do it, I want my name removed first. Can they really make me sign this? Aren't my rights being violated in some way by forcing me to do this? It's not fair, he has not stuck to any orders and this isn't even in the order and they are demanding I do it. He has said he would do several things in court (such as turning over his guns to me to pay for daycare costs) but he never did and the sheriff department would not enforce that because there was no order signed by a judge. What should I do?
When my ex-husband and I were last in court for child support issues (which he has been dodging for years) his attorney asked that I sign an escrow check my ex had received made out to both of us (My name is still on our mortgage) and I replied with "I'll sign it when he gets my name off the house by refinancing", however, the hearing examiner simply nodded her head. Nothing was written in the order pertaining to this check. I have received two letters from my attorney stating that I must come into her office and sign this check over to my ex, she said I can't change my mind - I have to do it. I never said I would just do it, I want my name removed first. Can they really make me sign this? Aren't my rights being violated in some way by forcing me to do this? It's not fair, he has not stuck to any orders and this isn't even in the order and they are demanding I do it. He has said he would do several things in court (such as turning over his guns to me to pay for daycare costs) but he never did and the sheriff department would not enforce that because there was no order signed by a judge. What should I do?