11-15-2001
DEAR LITTLE LESLIE:
If your mother is smart enough to prepare a will before she dies, then you will have to wait and see whether she has named you as a beneficiary in that will. Hopefully, there is a friend or relative there that would notify you when she eventually dies.
After she dies, her attorney or a close relative will file paperwork with the probate court to begin processing her will, or dividing her estate (if there is no will).
According to Maine Law (Maine Revised Statues Annotated, Title 18-A, Sections 2-301 & 2-302), "the following people MUST be mentioned in the will: CHILDREN (BORN OR ADOPTED), and the surviving spouse."
You would have to consult with a local probate attorney to find out what you should do if your name has been left out of the will.
The executor of her estate is supposed to make a good faith effort to try to locate you and all other heirs to notify them of what they are eligible to receive, but you can't automatically count on them to do it. If they don't contact you, you should contact the probate court to find out the name and address of the executor and contact him/her to inform them of your address/phone number.
If there is no will and no surviving husband, you 3 children get to split everything equally. Wouldn't that be good news for you!
SINCERELY,
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