Savvy Simon
Junior Member
I met Jackie nine years ago. In our first five years together, we made $450,000 in real estate. Then sadly, she was diagnosed with a terminal illness. She is still alive but not doing so well. I have learned in a discussion with her today, that various family have brought up the subject of her impending death and what she has decided to do about her last will and testament. We have already spent over $100,000 these last few years on unsuccessful treatments for her, leaving us with a mortgage free $350,000 home but little else. Family members have suggested to her, without my knowledge, that she should consider amending her current will which identifies me as being the sole beneficiary. These family members have suggested that it might not be appropriate for me to be left with all of our joint assets and that it might be nice to include them to some degree. Her death and a will that gives money to her nieces and nephews would mean that I would quite suddenly be burdened with a potentially large mortgage or debt. I understand that this is not so much a legal question as it is a moral question. Jackie has not made a decision because she is confused by the issue herself. We would both like to know what would be appropriate in a situation like this. Of course it would be nice to leave something to her few nieces and nephews but even ten dollars means I would have to be responsible for coming up with it. I am just a little concerned about a potential disagreement with these family members about deservability. Any help or suggestions or comments would be greatly appreciated.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?