What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Florida
I've been a very close friend to an 85 yr old neighbor for the past 5 years. He divorced a year ago and has 3 grown children. His relationship with his children has been distant and contentiuos at best for many years. None have helped him in any manner, he's had no interaction & very little contact with them for several years. He's still relatively healthy, independent and mentally sharp, but I can see myself soon transitioning into a caregiver role for him.
He's recently removed all 3 kids from his Will and made me his Executor. After much resisting on my part, he's persistent and clear that he wants to include me in his new Will (along with a few select Grandchildren) while he's still healthy and mentally sound. The problem is he/we don't know how to proceed with a "bulletproof" Will/Trust that includes me, AND gives absolutely NO legal recourse to his kids after his passing. He intends to leave me a monetary gift or deed (full or part) to his house etc. Would a separate "living trust" provide the best protection for his wishes, or should he sell/deed over all/part of his house to me now or should we form a partnership/corp for the deed ?
I, obviously require a rock solid agreement also to avoid any/all future recourse from his family (deep pockets and known to litigate) with false accusations of "undue influence", "mental capacity" etc. I know there are Elder laws in Florida regulating such actions too.
Where should we begin ?
-Thanks
I've been a very close friend to an 85 yr old neighbor for the past 5 years. He divorced a year ago and has 3 grown children. His relationship with his children has been distant and contentiuos at best for many years. None have helped him in any manner, he's had no interaction & very little contact with them for several years. He's still relatively healthy, independent and mentally sharp, but I can see myself soon transitioning into a caregiver role for him.
He's recently removed all 3 kids from his Will and made me his Executor. After much resisting on my part, he's persistent and clear that he wants to include me in his new Will (along with a few select Grandchildren) while he's still healthy and mentally sound. The problem is he/we don't know how to proceed with a "bulletproof" Will/Trust that includes me, AND gives absolutely NO legal recourse to his kids after his passing. He intends to leave me a monetary gift or deed (full or part) to his house etc. Would a separate "living trust" provide the best protection for his wishes, or should he sell/deed over all/part of his house to me now or should we form a partnership/corp for the deed ?
I, obviously require a rock solid agreement also to avoid any/all future recourse from his family (deep pockets and known to litigate) with false accusations of "undue influence", "mental capacity" etc. I know there are Elder laws in Florida regulating such actions too.
Where should we begin ?
-Thanks