lelandmck1215
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? North Carolina
Thanks to everyone who reads this. I have always had a good relationship with my father, who got remarried about 12 years ago, after he a my mother divorced. But in the last few years, we haven't spent that much time together simply because we have lived in different cities, and things feel a bit strained (we still talk on a regular basis, and get together as much as time permits). I am in my late 20's now and a bit more worldly, and am more than concerned about the fate of our family home (which has been in our family for a number of generations), and the possibility that my stepmother may gain control if my father dies before her. If this were ever to be the case, I would be more than happy to give her lifetime rights to the property, but would not want her able to make capital decisions on its fate. I'm concerned that she influences him in a negative way, for solely the reason that myself (and most people that are native to the town in which the home is) think that she is, (to put politely), not the best of people.
How should I approach this situation, and what specific terminology/legal direction should I take with my father so as to not strain relations any further. Once again, thanks to everyone who is interested.
Thanks to everyone who reads this. I have always had a good relationship with my father, who got remarried about 12 years ago, after he a my mother divorced. But in the last few years, we haven't spent that much time together simply because we have lived in different cities, and things feel a bit strained (we still talk on a regular basis, and get together as much as time permits). I am in my late 20's now and a bit more worldly, and am more than concerned about the fate of our family home (which has been in our family for a number of generations), and the possibility that my stepmother may gain control if my father dies before her. If this were ever to be the case, I would be more than happy to give her lifetime rights to the property, but would not want her able to make capital decisions on its fate. I'm concerned that she influences him in a negative way, for solely the reason that myself (and most people that are native to the town in which the home is) think that she is, (to put politely), not the best of people.
How should I approach this situation, and what specific terminology/legal direction should I take with my father so as to not strain relations any further. Once again, thanks to everyone who is interested.