What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
I am not married but have been living together with my significant other for a long time. We are not too keen on marriage idea, having been through one, each, with not to stellar experiences.
We are both middle aged. Other than a house with hefty mortgage (but some equity in it too) we do not have any big property that we own together. I am assuming, in case of my untimely death ahead of her, unless I have a will, she will have to deal with probate and all that nasty stuff. And to make the things more complicated, I am originally from across the big pond (naturalized US citizen for a while now) and I have some distant relatives, who never keep in touch but I know they keep a tab on me, will come down like wild beasts to claim their share on my share of the property I am going to leave behind. First and foremost, I'd like to prevent that.
Second but no less importance is, not to leave anything that I, personally own, to the ungrateful daughter of my SO. She might disagree with me on this but life is though.
Now my question is, Can I, myself, write a will, without the help of any attorney or alike, on a piece of paper, stating:
Would this make a legal will and be honored after I die ?
What I want to do is to leave the full use of the house (as long as she can afford the mortgage with her income and my life insurance proceeds she is the beneficiary of) to her. I do not want her to be forced the sale of the property. But when she passes away as well, I do not want my share of the house (which is half of it) not to go to that ungrateful twwit of a daughter she has. If she wants to leave her share, that is fine by me but I do not want that to happen to my share.
Is it too complicated for a simple person to handle on his own, without legal help ?
I am not married but have been living together with my significant other for a long time. We are not too keen on marriage idea, having been through one, each, with not to stellar experiences.
We are both middle aged. Other than a house with hefty mortgage (but some equity in it too) we do not have any big property that we own together. I am assuming, in case of my untimely death ahead of her, unless I have a will, she will have to deal with probate and all that nasty stuff. And to make the things more complicated, I am originally from across the big pond (naturalized US citizen for a while now) and I have some distant relatives, who never keep in touch but I know they keep a tab on me, will come down like wild beasts to claim their share on my share of the property I am going to leave behind. First and foremost, I'd like to prevent that.
Second but no less importance is, not to leave anything that I, personally own, to the ungrateful daughter of my SO. She might disagree with me on this but life is though.
Now my question is, Can I, myself, write a will, without the help of any attorney or alike, on a piece of paper, stating:
and have this writing be signed by two people who are not related to me.I am leaving everything I own to my significant other (referred by name of course), to be used as long as she is alive and upon her demise, I would like these assets (list of assets will be provided) to be liquidated and proceeds to be donated to this one single charity (to be named as well).
Would this make a legal will and be honored after I die ?
What I want to do is to leave the full use of the house (as long as she can afford the mortgage with her income and my life insurance proceeds she is the beneficiary of) to her. I do not want her to be forced the sale of the property. But when she passes away as well, I do not want my share of the house (which is half of it) not to go to that ungrateful twwit of a daughter she has. If she wants to leave her share, that is fine by me but I do not want that to happen to my share.
Is it too complicated for a simple person to handle on his own, without legal help ?