What is the name of your state? Florida
I know I posted this on the other forum but I am new to this site and did not know this forum was here; maybe I will get some help here instead of being accused of not loving my son. Or not correctly picking my husband, really that’s the help I got.
I wanted to see if there was a way to assign custody to my mother in the event that my husband and I both passed away, on the other forum they said no but I could state a preference, not that it would be a guarantee. Would my son go to a 'state home' during this process or if I said he should go to my mother would he automatically get placed with her even prior to assigning custody? What if other family members put in for custody as well? I have reasons that I don't want some of our other family members to have custody would it be a good idea to put that into documentation as well. My mother would not be able to state these reasons because she does not know them (my in-laws) she’s met them but could not state anything related to how they live their lives or how they have raised their children. Thanks so much.
I know I posted this on the other forum but I am new to this site and did not know this forum was here; maybe I will get some help here instead of being accused of not loving my son. Or not correctly picking my husband, really that’s the help I got.
I wanted to see if there was a way to assign custody to my mother in the event that my husband and I both passed away, on the other forum they said no but I could state a preference, not that it would be a guarantee. Would my son go to a 'state home' during this process or if I said he should go to my mother would he automatically get placed with her even prior to assigning custody? What if other family members put in for custody as well? I have reasons that I don't want some of our other family members to have custody would it be a good idea to put that into documentation as well. My mother would not be able to state these reasons because she does not know them (my in-laws) she’s met them but could not state anything related to how they live their lives or how they have raised their children. Thanks so much.