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Grammari
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I was Power of Attorney for a dear aunt, who left her estate to me via a joint bank account, beneficiary deed and a signed car title. The POA was on file with them, so they had mailed her monthly check deposit to my address, etc. and when I notified her former employer (in CA) about her death, I was sent a packet of papers to complete. I have recently received a 'second notice' packet, because I have avoided doing this. The death benefit paper named: 'ESTATE' as the beneficiary.
I was the ONLY one who showed that I cared for her, by visiting, transporting, shopping, cleaning and cooking for her for the past several years. My name was on her bank account and I saw to it that her bills were paid and that her home was maintained. I paid the funeral and cemetery expenses and all final bills, albeit from our joint account.
By the information I am asked for on the papers to file for the death benefit, I feel I have been asked to hunt down the names, addresses, etc. of all her relations, other nieces, nephews, cousins and their status would enable them to receive an equal sharing of the small death benefit.
I am considering marking UNKNOWN as to whether there are relatives other than myself, since I am quite certain there is no one who would ever protest.......they had not even seen her in years! What if I don't do anything? I would rather forfeit the amount, rather than list others as on an equal relative level when they never showed an interest in her. Only two attended her funeral, though perhaps ten live within 25 miles! The death benefit is less than $1,000 and I am prepared to let it stay with the state of CA, if I am required to share it with obscure cousins, etc. Would submitting copies of the deed to her property, naming me as the beneficiary or notarized statements from several of her friends stating that my aunt had told them I was to receive everything, make a difference? Please advise. Thank you kindly.
[Edited by Grammari on 05-31-2001 at 04:36 PM]
I was the ONLY one who showed that I cared for her, by visiting, transporting, shopping, cleaning and cooking for her for the past several years. My name was on her bank account and I saw to it that her bills were paid and that her home was maintained. I paid the funeral and cemetery expenses and all final bills, albeit from our joint account.
By the information I am asked for on the papers to file for the death benefit, I feel I have been asked to hunt down the names, addresses, etc. of all her relations, other nieces, nephews, cousins and their status would enable them to receive an equal sharing of the small death benefit.
I am considering marking UNKNOWN as to whether there are relatives other than myself, since I am quite certain there is no one who would ever protest.......they had not even seen her in years! What if I don't do anything? I would rather forfeit the amount, rather than list others as on an equal relative level when they never showed an interest in her. Only two attended her funeral, though perhaps ten live within 25 miles! The death benefit is less than $1,000 and I am prepared to let it stay with the state of CA, if I am required to share it with obscure cousins, etc. Would submitting copies of the deed to her property, naming me as the beneficiary or notarized statements from several of her friends stating that my aunt had told them I was to receive everything, make a difference? Please advise. Thank you kindly.
[Edited by Grammari on 05-31-2001 at 04:36 PM]