What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Situation: Widowed mother remarried 5 years ago. New husband had her move into his house and sell hers. They used her house proceeds to remodel his house and they lived off the rest of the proceeds and never touched his money. He set up a trust that included his "house and furnishings" and his CD acct. The trust states that Mom is the trustee when he dies with his son to be trustee after she dies. The trust allows Mom to live in the house until her death at which time the "house and furnishings" and CD go to husbands son. Husband died shortly after setting up trust. Mom not aware of trust until he died.
Mom is temporarily in the hospital with a broken shoulder and is on pain medication. She's pretty fuzzy right now but is normally quite mentally fit. In a recent conversation, the husband's son mentioned having Mom declared incompetent so he could take over as trustee. He then stated that after her death, ALL the items in the house would be his including Mom's stuff. When Mom moved into his house, she brought with her all our family heirlooms (lots of Dad's collections). Now the question: Can he take all Mom's personal property too? She is leaving her personal property to us (her kids). What about things she bought after the husband died. Son gets those too? How about the expensive items she and her husband bought together but with her money?(Out of her checking account which was not a joint account) Can anyone advise me? Should I be as worried as I am? Can't sleep thinking this stranger is going to take the heirlooms I grew up with.
Situation: Widowed mother remarried 5 years ago. New husband had her move into his house and sell hers. They used her house proceeds to remodel his house and they lived off the rest of the proceeds and never touched his money. He set up a trust that included his "house and furnishings" and his CD acct. The trust states that Mom is the trustee when he dies with his son to be trustee after she dies. The trust allows Mom to live in the house until her death at which time the "house and furnishings" and CD go to husbands son. Husband died shortly after setting up trust. Mom not aware of trust until he died.
Mom is temporarily in the hospital with a broken shoulder and is on pain medication. She's pretty fuzzy right now but is normally quite mentally fit. In a recent conversation, the husband's son mentioned having Mom declared incompetent so he could take over as trustee. He then stated that after her death, ALL the items in the house would be his including Mom's stuff. When Mom moved into his house, she brought with her all our family heirlooms (lots of Dad's collections). Now the question: Can he take all Mom's personal property too? She is leaving her personal property to us (her kids). What about things she bought after the husband died. Son gets those too? How about the expensive items she and her husband bought together but with her money?(Out of her checking account which was not a joint account) Can anyone advise me? Should I be as worried as I am? Can't sleep thinking this stranger is going to take the heirlooms I grew up with.
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