Indiana - Hello, I am not sure where/how to start this, but I want to thank you in advance for any insight you can provide. My 73 Mom has been disabled since I was 10 years old and, after she divorced my Father, moved back to her hometown where she has lived semi-independently for all but the past two years. Over the years, she has wanted to remain there while my Grandma and Uncle passed away from illness. This Uncle had been in charge of her financial matters. Two years ago, my Mom was put in an "assisted living" facility to recover from a surgery. I objected to this move as a permanent home for her at the time, and my objections were rejected from my family. When my Uncle passed away, he passed over the care of my Mom to another Uncle who had moved back to the town. Both Grandma and Uncle were said to have left a lot of money for my Mom's care (they were quite wealthy). Now that they have passed, I would like, and my Mom would like, to move closer to me. Ideally, not in a nursing home. I would either retrofit my house to make it handicapped accessible or we would buy a more suitable house together. My Uncle that is in charge of her is only willing to disclose my Mom's savings from her years of disability and a small retirement plan making it look like she only has enough funds to remain not on Medicaid in assisted living for three years when prior to this, in May, she was told by my first Uncle that she had at least enough funds to live there for 11 years. I think the money is in a trust or it is being handled just based on trust with no formal contract (Grandma left money to first uncle, first uncle left money to second uncle) and I do believe that the intention was to keep this knowledge secret from me. My parent's had a messy divorce and my family has never liked me because I am a city girl and my Dad's daughter. Sounds bizarre, but that is the truth. I don't know if there is any way that I would be entitled to know what the terms of the trust are with regards to my Mom, and I am guessing not because she never received a copy of a trust if there is one. Any suggestions on how I could make this all happen?
Thank you very much for your help.
Thank you very much for your help.