2-13-2002
DEAR ROSEANN:
So sorry that sneaky, greedy relatives make things difficult for others.
Normally, it is a requirement that a person's will be filed within 30 days of the person's death. If you have not already seen the new will, then check at the county courthouse probate court to see if the will has been filed there, yet. If it has been, you can get a copy of it.
You really do need to examine the new will to find out what it says before you make any decisions about contesting it, and if possible, try to get some idea of what your mother's entire estate is worth. It is a legal requirement that all children MUST BE MENTIONED in the will, so if you and some of the other sibling's names were left out of it, then you have a stronger case for contesting it. If you are going to interview with a few probate attorneys to ask them to consider taking your case, you will need to take the old will and the newer one for purposes of comparison.
Hopefully in the newer will your name is not just mentioned only, but mentioned as receiving something from the estate (money or property). I don't think you need to be concerned so much about getting access to the house, since it is the executor's responsibility to sell the personal property (if that is what the will instructs her to do) and if you wanted to retrieve some items for yourself for sentimental reasons or whatever, you will have to come to some type of agreement/arrangement with the executor for that.
Send me an e-mail message to the address shown below, and I can give you a confidential tip about your situation.
What exactly did your sister mean by saying she will only let you see the will through "legal means"--does that mean she won't let you see a copy of it now and wants to wait until the probate proceedings start in court? You have the right as a potential heir and family member to receive a copy now.
Good luck!
SINCERELY,
advisor (e-mail:
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