confused-in-MO
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My wife's father passed away. We have not been able to find a will, he has no other person named on his banking accounts and all his paperwork at the post office refers to "his estate" as far as beneficiaries. She has an older brother and a younger brother.
Is their a flow chart of how to proceed with his benefits with the US post office, pay his bills to funeral home,... being that he does not have anything documented? He was renting an appartment, drove a 15yr car that is paid for, may have <$5k in credit debt and no other assets that we know of other than we think there is life insurance through USPO.
She was told one day with the USPO to complete paperwork with them and not require an executor or probate, but then was told the oppoiste by someone else in the same group. Likewise one probate lawyer told her to "shake the tree" with the USPO and see what happens while others are imply its inevitable to deal without probate. All the while we have a significant bill to be paid. She was going to the bank with his death certificate, check book and Bill from funeral home to see if they could right a check to the funeral home. We are confused, she is overwhelmed, and each lawyer she has spoken with have been either opportunistic or accusational, not guiding or trusting.
Any guidance is greatly appreciated, trying to protect what assets are actually there and pay for his services ASAP.
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?North Carolina
Is their a flow chart of how to proceed with his benefits with the US post office, pay his bills to funeral home,... being that he does not have anything documented? He was renting an appartment, drove a 15yr car that is paid for, may have <$5k in credit debt and no other assets that we know of other than we think there is life insurance through USPO.
She was told one day with the USPO to complete paperwork with them and not require an executor or probate, but then was told the oppoiste by someone else in the same group. Likewise one probate lawyer told her to "shake the tree" with the USPO and see what happens while others are imply its inevitable to deal without probate. All the while we have a significant bill to be paid. She was going to the bank with his death certificate, check book and Bill from funeral home to see if they could right a check to the funeral home. We are confused, she is overwhelmed, and each lawyer she has spoken with have been either opportunistic or accusational, not guiding or trusting.
Any guidance is greatly appreciated, trying to protect what assets are actually there and pay for his services ASAP.
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?North Carolina
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