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My father-in-law lives alone,is legally blind and in poor health. He wishes to stay in his home and refuses to move in with us. He is financially secure and owns his home outright. My wife (executrix) and a grandaughter are his only significant heirs.
His nephew and his nephew's family want to move
in with him and provide companionship/care. They plan on selling their own house after doing so, thus this does not seem like a short-term arrangement. They have discussed it with him and he seems amenable to the idea.
Question: Superficially this seems like a good idea, since he will have companionship and someone to look after him- but does this sound like a potential headache for the executor or what?? Would a lease (he wants to give them 5-10
years, consideration being half the utilities and of course companionship- and the option to buy the property at a set date after his death)still be binding on the estate?? Would all the necessary contingencies (what if he dies, goes to a nursing home, can't stand living with them, etc.) make for an unwieldy and unenforceable lease?? Any similar experiences with this? He lives in NJ.
His nephew and his nephew's family want to move
in with him and provide companionship/care. They plan on selling their own house after doing so, thus this does not seem like a short-term arrangement. They have discussed it with him and he seems amenable to the idea.
Question: Superficially this seems like a good idea, since he will have companionship and someone to look after him- but does this sound like a potential headache for the executor or what?? Would a lease (he wants to give them 5-10
years, consideration being half the utilities and of course companionship- and the option to buy the property at a set date after his death)still be binding on the estate?? Would all the necessary contingencies (what if he dies, goes to a nursing home, can't stand living with them, etc.) make for an unwieldy and unenforceable lease?? Any similar experiences with this? He lives in NJ.