Serenity2009
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New York State
My grandfather passed last month, leaving only a handwritten will. He was very detailed on what he wanted done, but my oldest aunt (aunt A) is not following his wishes, he wanted one of his daughters (aunt B) to keep the house as she was living there caring for him. My Aunt A cleaned out my grandfather's bank accounts and took the majority of the contents out of his house. Bills keep coming and she refuses to pay them and she said my Aunt B had to move out of the house so it could be sold. Aunt B Has her other two siblings agreeing with her as to what should have happened and that Aunt A has spent estate money on her personal things.
Aunt A has her church for money (she tithes (sp?)) so the church supports her, Aunt B would like to do this pro-se as she simply does not have money.
Aunt A is getting scared of all the bills coming in, and said she would sign saying Aunt B could have the house and be executor.....
My questions.... How does Aunt B proceed if Aunt A and her other siblings sign off and agree for her to be the executor?
Will Aunt B be able to request the Estate money Aunt A spent on personal expenses? Or at least request an accounting of the estate funds? What should Aunt B do?
My grandfather passed last month, leaving only a handwritten will. He was very detailed on what he wanted done, but my oldest aunt (aunt A) is not following his wishes, he wanted one of his daughters (aunt B) to keep the house as she was living there caring for him. My Aunt A cleaned out my grandfather's bank accounts and took the majority of the contents out of his house. Bills keep coming and she refuses to pay them and she said my Aunt B had to move out of the house so it could be sold. Aunt B Has her other two siblings agreeing with her as to what should have happened and that Aunt A has spent estate money on her personal things.
Aunt A has her church for money (she tithes (sp?)) so the church supports her, Aunt B would like to do this pro-se as she simply does not have money.
Aunt A is getting scared of all the bills coming in, and said she would sign saying Aunt B could have the house and be executor.....
My questions.... How does Aunt B proceed if Aunt A and her other siblings sign off and agree for her to be the executor?
Will Aunt B be able to request the Estate money Aunt A spent on personal expenses? Or at least request an accounting of the estate funds? What should Aunt B do?