What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
My mother passed away a year ago, and my father passed away a year before her. My elder brother is the Trustee. The home that I've lived in for 20 years is now owned by the Trust. I own 50% and each of my brothers owns 25%.
Dealing with my elder brother has been a nightmare, to say the least. He is hostile, secretive, and refuses to share any information. Back in January, I retained my own Trust attorney to deal with these issues.
A month ago, my elder brother sold my home for well below market value, without informing me or my other brother. He signed papers, with a Realtor. I believe these actions were taken out of spite, and perhaps some stupidity. I was astonished at just how disrespectful this brother has been to me, and also to my other brother. Selling the house without telling the other beneficiaries? For well below market value? My brother lives in Florida and does not seem capable of understanding the fair market value of houses in California. I never thought he was stupid, so maybe this was all done out of spite.
I did the only thing I could do: My lawyer told me that we could file a lis pendens on the house, which hopefully would invalidate the previous sale. (I have never personally met the elusive 'buyer', nor has this person even seen the inside of my house.) I have some doubts whether this mysterious 'buyer' is even real. When I asked the Realtor for a copy of the offer, she told me that only my lawyer could get that. And of course my brother refuses to give me ANYTHING.
I went ahead and filed a lawsuit, suing my brother for breach of fiduciary duty. It was very expensive to file this lawsuit, and I can't really afford much more. But it seemed like the ONLY way to get fair market value for my home was to go ahead and file the lawsuit. Also, my brother filed an eviction notice against me, which turned out to be illegal.
I've never dealt with lawyers before or filed a lawsuit against anyone. I almost feel like I'm a bit in over my head, here. People are warning me that lawyers will drag out a case to make maximum profits. People are warning me that going to Court is very expensive (there is a court hearing scheduled for early August). I think some of these people may be trying to get me to drop the lawsuit, because they realize that my brother is at fault. Others are more neutral, and some really don't know much about legal fees, either.
I'm posting here to try to get some impartial opinions or information about Trust litigation. I WISH my lawyer was working pro bono, but he's not. He's expensive, and I'm trying to look at the cost/benefit ratio. It is my understanding that my brother (as Trustee) is allowed to pay all of HIS legal expenses out of the Trust? That scares me even more, because the only asset in the Trust is the house, and I don't want to see all that money go to the lawyers. IF I win the lawsuit, does my brother have to pay for HIS OWN legal costs, or even pay for MY legal costs?
If my brother travels from Florida to California for the hearing, do all of his travel expenses come out of the Trust? My brother currently has THREE lawyers working against me, so I can only imagine how much that is costing.
My lawyer and I are asking 1. That my brother be replaced as Trustee and 2. That I be given time to find a new home before putting my house on the market. And of course I want to make sure I get fair market value on the house, this time. (I really don't want to sell, but I can't afford to 'buy out' this brother).
There is one family friend in particular who is trying to convince me that things can be resolved without lawyers. I don't trust this guy, because in the past he has been on my brother's side. This guy has been trying to convince me to send emails to my brother--even writing out word for word what I should sent him. (I'm afraid this may be some sort of trick, and that these emails MIGHT somehow be used against me in Court. Should I be emailing my brother, at all?). Obviously it's in the Realtor's best interests to convince me to drop the lawsuit, too. She doesn't want to miss out on a commission.
I don't trust my brother AT ALL, so that's why I want things to go through lawyers and be official. I do NOT want my brother to play any more 'dirty tricks' on me. My other brother seems incapable of reining in the elder brother. For the record, my elder brother refuses to speak to me, and has told me that he wants ALL communications to go through our respective lawyers, even though is will be more expensive for me and come out of the Trust. (I think my brother is trying to bankrupt me. He already stole a hefty sum from my mom's IRA).
I'm a bit apprehensive about putting all of my faith and trust (and money) in a lawyer, but I see no other option. Can this mess possibly be resolved without lawyers? I paid a hefty sum to file that lawsuit, so I do want to get my money's worth. When MY money is scarce and the Trustee is so hostile and secretive, it's a really bad combination. But I think I'm doing the right thing by filing the lawsuit.
Are there any questions I should be asking my lawyer about fees, or about how things with the lawsuit will proceed? Even my lawyer told me, "It won't be cheap", but I saw no other alternative than to file the lis pendens. (I already paid a large amount to my lawyer as a 'retainer'). My lawyer and I are currently awaiting a reply from my brother and HIS lawyer, but we are being IGNORED. All along, my brother has basically IGNORED me and my lawyer. I was able to get a copy of the Trust, but that's about it.
Does my brother really get to pay ALL of HIS legal fees out of the Trust? That is really unfair. I suppose I'll ask my lawyer if I should take this to Court, or not, and what the fees will be? Are there any other questions I should be asking my lawyer? In the meantime, my brother is spending all of the Trust money on lawyers. Do all lawyers do mediation? I guess I'd like to try to settle things, before this gets too expensive. I'm feeling a bit unsure about all of this, and wanted to ask for any advice. Thanks in advance.
My mother passed away a year ago, and my father passed away a year before her. My elder brother is the Trustee. The home that I've lived in for 20 years is now owned by the Trust. I own 50% and each of my brothers owns 25%.
Dealing with my elder brother has been a nightmare, to say the least. He is hostile, secretive, and refuses to share any information. Back in January, I retained my own Trust attorney to deal with these issues.
A month ago, my elder brother sold my home for well below market value, without informing me or my other brother. He signed papers, with a Realtor. I believe these actions were taken out of spite, and perhaps some stupidity. I was astonished at just how disrespectful this brother has been to me, and also to my other brother. Selling the house without telling the other beneficiaries? For well below market value? My brother lives in Florida and does not seem capable of understanding the fair market value of houses in California. I never thought he was stupid, so maybe this was all done out of spite.
I did the only thing I could do: My lawyer told me that we could file a lis pendens on the house, which hopefully would invalidate the previous sale. (I have never personally met the elusive 'buyer', nor has this person even seen the inside of my house.) I have some doubts whether this mysterious 'buyer' is even real. When I asked the Realtor for a copy of the offer, she told me that only my lawyer could get that. And of course my brother refuses to give me ANYTHING.
I went ahead and filed a lawsuit, suing my brother for breach of fiduciary duty. It was very expensive to file this lawsuit, and I can't really afford much more. But it seemed like the ONLY way to get fair market value for my home was to go ahead and file the lawsuit. Also, my brother filed an eviction notice against me, which turned out to be illegal.
I've never dealt with lawyers before or filed a lawsuit against anyone. I almost feel like I'm a bit in over my head, here. People are warning me that lawyers will drag out a case to make maximum profits. People are warning me that going to Court is very expensive (there is a court hearing scheduled for early August). I think some of these people may be trying to get me to drop the lawsuit, because they realize that my brother is at fault. Others are more neutral, and some really don't know much about legal fees, either.
I'm posting here to try to get some impartial opinions or information about Trust litigation. I WISH my lawyer was working pro bono, but he's not. He's expensive, and I'm trying to look at the cost/benefit ratio. It is my understanding that my brother (as Trustee) is allowed to pay all of HIS legal expenses out of the Trust? That scares me even more, because the only asset in the Trust is the house, and I don't want to see all that money go to the lawyers. IF I win the lawsuit, does my brother have to pay for HIS OWN legal costs, or even pay for MY legal costs?
If my brother travels from Florida to California for the hearing, do all of his travel expenses come out of the Trust? My brother currently has THREE lawyers working against me, so I can only imagine how much that is costing.
My lawyer and I are asking 1. That my brother be replaced as Trustee and 2. That I be given time to find a new home before putting my house on the market. And of course I want to make sure I get fair market value on the house, this time. (I really don't want to sell, but I can't afford to 'buy out' this brother).
There is one family friend in particular who is trying to convince me that things can be resolved without lawyers. I don't trust this guy, because in the past he has been on my brother's side. This guy has been trying to convince me to send emails to my brother--even writing out word for word what I should sent him. (I'm afraid this may be some sort of trick, and that these emails MIGHT somehow be used against me in Court. Should I be emailing my brother, at all?). Obviously it's in the Realtor's best interests to convince me to drop the lawsuit, too. She doesn't want to miss out on a commission.
I don't trust my brother AT ALL, so that's why I want things to go through lawyers and be official. I do NOT want my brother to play any more 'dirty tricks' on me. My other brother seems incapable of reining in the elder brother. For the record, my elder brother refuses to speak to me, and has told me that he wants ALL communications to go through our respective lawyers, even though is will be more expensive for me and come out of the Trust. (I think my brother is trying to bankrupt me. He already stole a hefty sum from my mom's IRA).
I'm a bit apprehensive about putting all of my faith and trust (and money) in a lawyer, but I see no other option. Can this mess possibly be resolved without lawyers? I paid a hefty sum to file that lawsuit, so I do want to get my money's worth. When MY money is scarce and the Trustee is so hostile and secretive, it's a really bad combination. But I think I'm doing the right thing by filing the lawsuit.
Are there any questions I should be asking my lawyer about fees, or about how things with the lawsuit will proceed? Even my lawyer told me, "It won't be cheap", but I saw no other alternative than to file the lis pendens. (I already paid a large amount to my lawyer as a 'retainer'). My lawyer and I are currently awaiting a reply from my brother and HIS lawyer, but we are being IGNORED. All along, my brother has basically IGNORED me and my lawyer. I was able to get a copy of the Trust, but that's about it.
Does my brother really get to pay ALL of HIS legal fees out of the Trust? That is really unfair. I suppose I'll ask my lawyer if I should take this to Court, or not, and what the fees will be? Are there any other questions I should be asking my lawyer? In the meantime, my brother is spending all of the Trust money on lawyers. Do all lawyers do mediation? I guess I'd like to try to settle things, before this gets too expensive. I'm feeling a bit unsure about all of this, and wanted to ask for any advice. Thanks in advance.