I am a resident of N.J. his house was in Florida I have a lawyer in Florida. My father was devored 5 years ago in the devorse decree it states what is his is his and what is hers is hers (all assets are named) his 401k was name in the decree as his only nothing stated about her getting it apon death.She had filed for the 401k and I called them to stop it and file for it myself I am the only heir. They payed her out for the 401k without me knowing and will not give me info on it. I have opend up an estate and I am the admin. My lawyer without checking the facts of the 401k or the decree (that he sent me the copy of) is telling me that the law will favor her. Also she is saying that her cousin from arizona suddenly found a will from my father (that would pre-date the devorse decree)is the will valid and does she have the right to keep his 401k if the decree says she has no rights to it?