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starnightsky
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My mother died 11/2 years ago at the age of 83. She and my father had a living trust. My mother said that I would inherit everything after they both died. My father never told my mother what their assets were during their marriage despite her repeated pleadings. He would always lose his temper and storm out of the room. She used to sign a blank tax return. This went on for YEARS. She was afraid of him because of his temper. I asked my mother to please specify what she wanted me to have. She would always say the same thing, "You are getting everything. There isn't anyone else to leave our estate to". Her father left her some money when he died that she wanted me to have but my father took it out of their savings account without her permission and invested it. My mother was furious about this and even he won't say anything about it. All he does now is get mad. He doesn't even remember it. Senility runs in his family and he told me that he is starting to lose his memory.
My mother always said that if my dad died first she would NEVER remarry. When I asked if her if she thought my dad remarry; she said that if he did she didn't want the new wife to have any of her material possessions or any of my inheritance which she considered half of their assets. Well my dad meets this woman and they got married 2 months ago after only knowing each other a short time. I wasn't even invited to the wedding. He told me that they had signed a prenuptial agreement. I found out two weeks ago that he gave my mother's wedding ring that she wore for 57+ years to his new wife!!!!!! I got really mad and he gave me the ring a couple of days later. Now he's going to put his new wife to his living trust and take me out. Does anyone have any advice??? My mother would have a fit if she knew what he was doing and the way that he is treating me. Plus the new wife has 5 grown children and I've only met her once but she and my dad go to see her kids. She's trying to get me out of the picture completely and take over. I feel like she is influencing him and he hasn't been the same since he met her. I forgot to say that I'm an only child. My dad won't tell me where his living trust is or anything. All he does is get mad and says that he isn't going to die. HELP! HELP! HELP! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I don't know whether I can force him to show me his living trust or what. I want to prevent a potential legal fight and I'd like to do it before he dies.
My mother always said that if my dad died first she would NEVER remarry. When I asked if her if she thought my dad remarry; she said that if he did she didn't want the new wife to have any of her material possessions or any of my inheritance which she considered half of their assets. Well my dad meets this woman and they got married 2 months ago after only knowing each other a short time. I wasn't even invited to the wedding. He told me that they had signed a prenuptial agreement. I found out two weeks ago that he gave my mother's wedding ring that she wore for 57+ years to his new wife!!!!!! I got really mad and he gave me the ring a couple of days later. Now he's going to put his new wife to his living trust and take me out. Does anyone have any advice??? My mother would have a fit if she knew what he was doing and the way that he is treating me. Plus the new wife has 5 grown children and I've only met her once but she and my dad go to see her kids. She's trying to get me out of the picture completely and take over. I feel like she is influencing him and he hasn't been the same since he met her. I forgot to say that I'm an only child. My dad won't tell me where his living trust is or anything. All he does is get mad and says that he isn't going to die. HELP! HELP! HELP! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I don't know whether I can force him to show me his living trust or what. I want to prevent a potential legal fight and I'd like to do it before he dies.