V1R0T8;3115570]The kids were out of state and his brother(my uncle) did not want them contacted because if the got ahold of his bank account it would be drained by his kids.
so what? Once the man died, it would have become the children's money, after estate debts were paid. It surely sounds like you conspired to prevent the children from their rightful claim. The more you talk, the more it sounds like the kids have a valid complaint.
.my mom was actually POA and the one bank that didn't have a POD on it suggested my dad get put on it.
so, was the decedent even competent at this time? If not, what transpired is a really big problem.
..that was to pay final bills and there is money left my parents have been handling his affairs at his request...
and if your parents left it alone, that is exactly where it would have gone. Due to your parent's actions, there was actually no requirement to pay the decedents debts with that money.
when he was in his final days is when he said contact them (the kids)which we had to send them money for gas and rental car to make it here one of the accounts he has been on the last several years and one was put on back in august which he did not even know(POD) and the other one before he passed but if there wasnt a name(POD) it would just got the state i believe I'm sorry if i seem confusing on this im just trying to get advice and soome feedback....sorry for the confusion
no, the money would not go to the state, unless the decedent owed money to the state. It would have been put into the decedents estate and used to pay estate bills, if any, and then distributed to the decedent's children if any remained.