What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Pennsylvania
Hello everyone,
First off, thanks for taking a moment to read this post and any information you can give me. I was going crazy trying to read about this stuff on my own. My mother is in the terminal stages of breast cancer and has asked for me to be part of the Will. However, she asked for my birth certificate and social security number, saying this was needed for her to leave things to me. I've never heard of this, and I went Googling on my own and saw no mention of this. As a little back story, my mother and I had a falling out over a decade ago. It had nothing to do with money anything like that, and she's not that kind of woman to take advantage of someone's private information, however I have nothing if not trust issues. To come back into my life so suddenly and ask for that information, even for a last testament, has me concerned.
Is this information necessary to put someone in your will, or to pass on anything to them? I had wanted to ask her specifically why she needed it, but she's in a fragile state and knew it would hurt her feelings if I just flat-out said I didn't fully trust her. We're trying to bury the hatchet before she passes, but I need some peace of mind before handing her that kind of information. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Hello everyone,
First off, thanks for taking a moment to read this post and any information you can give me. I was going crazy trying to read about this stuff on my own. My mother is in the terminal stages of breast cancer and has asked for me to be part of the Will. However, she asked for my birth certificate and social security number, saying this was needed for her to leave things to me. I've never heard of this, and I went Googling on my own and saw no mention of this. As a little back story, my mother and I had a falling out over a decade ago. It had nothing to do with money anything like that, and she's not that kind of woman to take advantage of someone's private information, however I have nothing if not trust issues. To come back into my life so suddenly and ask for that information, even for a last testament, has me concerned.
Is this information necessary to put someone in your will, or to pass on anything to them? I had wanted to ask her specifically why she needed it, but she's in a fragile state and knew it would hurt her feelings if I just flat-out said I didn't fully trust her. We're trying to bury the hatchet before she passes, but I need some peace of mind before handing her that kind of information. Any help would be greatly appreciated.