dragonrider99
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Massachusetts
Greetings all. I am writing on behalf of my Mother In-law (MIL). She is a named beneficiary in the estate of a cousin that passed away approximately 7 months ago. Two months after receiving notice of her status in the estate, she received a letter from the Attorneys handling the estate stating that a number of Bank Books had been found in the house, and her name was on one of them. Not all of the beneficiaries had books in their names, and those that did were notified in writing by the Attorney. She received her notice of a book in her name at this time. A month later, she received another letter stating that before the books could be released to each beneficiary that had one, a release must be signed stating that she would not contest the release. Each named beneficiary was required to sign the release, whether they had a bank book or not. The purpose being that if anyone contested it, all of the monies in the books would revert back to the estate and would be divided pro rata among ALL beneficiaries commensurate with the existing divisions of the estate. Nobody objected, and a letter stating that was received a short time later. This past weekend, my MIL recieved yet another letter from the attorney stataing that "... Inadvertently overlooked that she did not have a bank book...". My MIL is devestated by this news and extremely upset. She is over 80 and and legally blind and was expecting that money to provide some aid to allow her to be able to read with the help of some expensive electronic hardware. In addition to all this, each beneficiary was also asked to approve a $30,000 "gift" to the deceased's caretaker. Each persons contribution calculated based on the amount they were receiving from the estate.
My MIL is extremely upset by all this. She feels that she signed away her rights to contest anything and made decisions based on false information. She is also extremely confused as to how, over the course of several months and three letters, she was named as a person who would receive a bank book, and now is told no... she would not.
Is there anything that she can/should do? Should she just let it all go? She was told that she is indeed a beneficiary still. How could they have possibly made such a monumental mistake?? Please advise as what options, if any, that she has. Thanks very much.
I apologize for the length of this ...
Greetings all. I am writing on behalf of my Mother In-law (MIL). She is a named beneficiary in the estate of a cousin that passed away approximately 7 months ago. Two months after receiving notice of her status in the estate, she received a letter from the Attorneys handling the estate stating that a number of Bank Books had been found in the house, and her name was on one of them. Not all of the beneficiaries had books in their names, and those that did were notified in writing by the Attorney. She received her notice of a book in her name at this time. A month later, she received another letter stating that before the books could be released to each beneficiary that had one, a release must be signed stating that she would not contest the release. Each named beneficiary was required to sign the release, whether they had a bank book or not. The purpose being that if anyone contested it, all of the monies in the books would revert back to the estate and would be divided pro rata among ALL beneficiaries commensurate with the existing divisions of the estate. Nobody objected, and a letter stating that was received a short time later. This past weekend, my MIL recieved yet another letter from the attorney stataing that "... Inadvertently overlooked that she did not have a bank book...". My MIL is devestated by this news and extremely upset. She is over 80 and and legally blind and was expecting that money to provide some aid to allow her to be able to read with the help of some expensive electronic hardware. In addition to all this, each beneficiary was also asked to approve a $30,000 "gift" to the deceased's caretaker. Each persons contribution calculated based on the amount they were receiving from the estate.
My MIL is extremely upset by all this. She feels that she signed away her rights to contest anything and made decisions based on false information. She is also extremely confused as to how, over the course of several months and three letters, she was named as a person who would receive a bank book, and now is told no... she would not.
Is there anything that she can/should do? Should she just let it all go? She was told that she is indeed a beneficiary still. How could they have possibly made such a monumental mistake?? Please advise as what options, if any, that she has. Thanks very much.
I apologize for the length of this ...