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evelyn
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I called the lawyer in Fremont, California today, and he said he was waiting for the Bank of America to send something so the accounting would not be ready by January 20th, 2001, my deadline, and our family wanted to see the accounting to make up our mind as to whether to contest or not.
I live in Simcoe, Ontario, Canada. I hired a lawyer immediately upon my Aunt's death in my hometown and knew that I'd have to hire a lawyer in California eventually. My sister-in-law, my brother's wife, who is a litigation secretary in Orillia, Ontario, Canada said another ex-boss of hers knew a lawyer in San Francisco and we will get him, but he cost $5000 US retainer fee, $350 US per hour, travelling and motel expense, etc. So we didn't get him as Hayward, California is where the court is and Fremont, California is close to there. So I called around and got what I seemed was a decent lawyer and our family decided to have him send the letter to the Step-son's lawyer and he never got around to it but I remember him mentioning to me that I could send it, so I did and it arrived November 27, 2000 to the Step-son's lawyer in Fremont, California. December 29th, I called to see how things were coming along and gave my fax number and I know how busy lawyers are but he knew the time limit, and said something to the effect that he'd have it out in the mail shortly. Today, he said, oh I'm waiting for something from the Bank of America as we wanted an accounting of all her bank accounts in the Schedule A to the Trust as we have no idea how much was in there.
My Aunt died at 90 years of age at St. Rose Hospital in Hayward, California. My father, my Aunt's brother was left $50,000 US but he died January 26, 1994 so his share was to go to my mother; my brother, my Aunt's nephew was to be left $10,000 US and I was to be left $10,000 US. Each of this step-son's 4 daughters were left $10,000 US and all the rest was left to the Step-son.
I can't go to the Step-Son's lawyer to his office as he represents the Step-son but he has answered my questions, but today I was mad and left a message on his answering service, how long does it take to push a fax button? He said, I always twist things; he doesn't even know me and I documented everything he said and then he added, maybe your Aunt didn't want to tell your mother and your brother and yourself that she changed her will. I said, I doubt that Mr. Holmes. I know my Aunt and she loved us and was very concerned her last visit to Canada in 1995 that we were left our share from her in her will. After 1995, her mental state deteriorated as we always ended talking to a nurse or aide at the Retirement Home she lived in. In 1996 in the fall, my brother and wife visited her and they cried after that visit to see her mental state. An amendment to the Trust is signed in August 1997 at 87 years of age, no notary stamp, no witness and a feeble signature. If you read, that amendment to her with not our names in it and numbers, she'd sign anything.
See, we don't know how much is left, $30,000 US the Step-Son's lawyer mentioned to my sister-in-law at the beginning; well, we wondered where did her $165,000 US go from the sale of her house in Alhambra and this step-son invested her money and how much money did he make for her and how much was in these bank accounts.
There were 8 of us in the Trust; my father, my Aunt's brother, if he died, then to my Mother; my brother, my Aunt's nephew, and myself, her namesake and niece; this step-son's 4 daughters and the step-son.
So our family feels, Step-son already used up, spent everything else as he had Power of Attorney before and now there is only $30,000 left in the estate, so why should he get more. I care about my father's share, as he is dead and gone and can't fight for his share which is now my Mother's share and my Mother cared for my father and Aunt's father for 9 1/2 years in our home years ago and did it from the kindness of her heart and it would be nice for my 77 year old Mom to inherit $ which I feel she deserves now that I am an adult and realize how much work it must have been to have an overnight visitor for 9 1/2 years.
Evelyn
I live in Simcoe, Ontario, Canada. I hired a lawyer immediately upon my Aunt's death in my hometown and knew that I'd have to hire a lawyer in California eventually. My sister-in-law, my brother's wife, who is a litigation secretary in Orillia, Ontario, Canada said another ex-boss of hers knew a lawyer in San Francisco and we will get him, but he cost $5000 US retainer fee, $350 US per hour, travelling and motel expense, etc. So we didn't get him as Hayward, California is where the court is and Fremont, California is close to there. So I called around and got what I seemed was a decent lawyer and our family decided to have him send the letter to the Step-son's lawyer and he never got around to it but I remember him mentioning to me that I could send it, so I did and it arrived November 27, 2000 to the Step-son's lawyer in Fremont, California. December 29th, I called to see how things were coming along and gave my fax number and I know how busy lawyers are but he knew the time limit, and said something to the effect that he'd have it out in the mail shortly. Today, he said, oh I'm waiting for something from the Bank of America as we wanted an accounting of all her bank accounts in the Schedule A to the Trust as we have no idea how much was in there.
My Aunt died at 90 years of age at St. Rose Hospital in Hayward, California. My father, my Aunt's brother was left $50,000 US but he died January 26, 1994 so his share was to go to my mother; my brother, my Aunt's nephew was to be left $10,000 US and I was to be left $10,000 US. Each of this step-son's 4 daughters were left $10,000 US and all the rest was left to the Step-son.
I can't go to the Step-Son's lawyer to his office as he represents the Step-son but he has answered my questions, but today I was mad and left a message on his answering service, how long does it take to push a fax button? He said, I always twist things; he doesn't even know me and I documented everything he said and then he added, maybe your Aunt didn't want to tell your mother and your brother and yourself that she changed her will. I said, I doubt that Mr. Holmes. I know my Aunt and she loved us and was very concerned her last visit to Canada in 1995 that we were left our share from her in her will. After 1995, her mental state deteriorated as we always ended talking to a nurse or aide at the Retirement Home she lived in. In 1996 in the fall, my brother and wife visited her and they cried after that visit to see her mental state. An amendment to the Trust is signed in August 1997 at 87 years of age, no notary stamp, no witness and a feeble signature. If you read, that amendment to her with not our names in it and numbers, she'd sign anything.
See, we don't know how much is left, $30,000 US the Step-Son's lawyer mentioned to my sister-in-law at the beginning; well, we wondered where did her $165,000 US go from the sale of her house in Alhambra and this step-son invested her money and how much money did he make for her and how much was in these bank accounts.
There were 8 of us in the Trust; my father, my Aunt's brother, if he died, then to my Mother; my brother, my Aunt's nephew, and myself, her namesake and niece; this step-son's 4 daughters and the step-son.
So our family feels, Step-son already used up, spent everything else as he had Power of Attorney before and now there is only $30,000 left in the estate, so why should he get more. I care about my father's share, as he is dead and gone and can't fight for his share which is now my Mother's share and my Mother cared for my father and Aunt's father for 9 1/2 years in our home years ago and did it from the kindness of her heart and it would be nice for my 77 year old Mom to inherit $ which I feel she deserves now that I am an adult and realize how much work it must have been to have an overnight visitor for 9 1/2 years.
Evelyn