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joseph17
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Mom died in May of 1999. I had stored my personal belongings in an upstairs bedroom and attic, in her house. Since she died, I have been trying to get my "stuff" from my 2 brothers (one is Executor and the other lives in Mom's house).
Since I did not pay over to them the insurance proceeds which Mom split among the three of us (they claimed Mom wanted one of my brother's to have it all),they have been stonewalling me, and now say that it is all my brother's "stuff" because Mom willed the house and everything in it to my brother who lives there, and that it would be too stressful to go through everything now... maybe in a couple years! I have been told that it is still my stuff, whether or not the house and its contents have been willed to my brother.
Although the items are not extensively valuable, they are more of sentimental value, yearbooks, toys, college papers, photographs, paintings, clothes, etc., which had accumulate over some 30 years.
Do you have any suggestions as to how I can convince them to allow me to get my belongings, short of a lawsuit?
Thanks.
Joe/NJ
Since I did not pay over to them the insurance proceeds which Mom split among the three of us (they claimed Mom wanted one of my brother's to have it all),they have been stonewalling me, and now say that it is all my brother's "stuff" because Mom willed the house and everything in it to my brother who lives there, and that it would be too stressful to go through everything now... maybe in a couple years! I have been told that it is still my stuff, whether or not the house and its contents have been willed to my brother.
Although the items are not extensively valuable, they are more of sentimental value, yearbooks, toys, college papers, photographs, paintings, clothes, etc., which had accumulate over some 30 years.
Do you have any suggestions as to how I can convince them to allow me to get my belongings, short of a lawsuit?
Thanks.
Joe/NJ