imwildfire
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?CA
I live in another state, however my mother died a week ago in CA and I am one of five children and we are all the beneficiaries of her living trust. All of her property is located in CA. Two of my siblings were designated as successor trustees. The day after she died, we were all told that the attorney that drew the trust was sending out copies of the trust to each of us. I have still not received a copy. I requested a copy again and was told a copy will now will sent to all of us tomorrow. (Wednesday). Myself and one other sibling would also like to know what the assets of the estate are as of the date of death and the two siblings that are trustees are not forthcoming. They have apparently gone over the figures with the only other sibling that is not a trustee, but don't want to share the information with us. We're not asking for a day to day record, just what the figures are on the date of death. We're puzzled why this is such a secret? Are we all entitled to know this now? They also don't want to use an attorney and think they can settle this estate on their own even though they've never done this before. We feel an attorney's advice is essential to getting this job done correctly and in compliance with the law. Is there any way we can help push them in that direction? They don't want to spend the money and I feel this would be money well spent.
Thank you.
I live in another state, however my mother died a week ago in CA and I am one of five children and we are all the beneficiaries of her living trust. All of her property is located in CA. Two of my siblings were designated as successor trustees. The day after she died, we were all told that the attorney that drew the trust was sending out copies of the trust to each of us. I have still not received a copy. I requested a copy again and was told a copy will now will sent to all of us tomorrow. (Wednesday). Myself and one other sibling would also like to know what the assets of the estate are as of the date of death and the two siblings that are trustees are not forthcoming. They have apparently gone over the figures with the only other sibling that is not a trustee, but don't want to share the information with us. We're not asking for a day to day record, just what the figures are on the date of death. We're puzzled why this is such a secret? Are we all entitled to know this now? They also don't want to use an attorney and think they can settle this estate on their own even though they've never done this before. We feel an attorney's advice is essential to getting this job done correctly and in compliance with the law. Is there any way we can help push them in that direction? They don't want to spend the money and I feel this would be money well spent.
Thank you.