ktscarlett
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Delaware
My father passed away 2 weeks ago. I have filed his will and opened the estate, as executrix. My sister and I are in agreement about the division of all personal items. However when our parents divorced 10 years ago, he borrowed money from his sister to buy my mother's half of the property out (2 acres and a doublewide home.) My aunt - who we do not trust at all - insisted on having her name put on the title of the property. The title search performed at the Registry of Wills bears this out. And yet, when she mentioned it years ago and I asked my father about it, he was adamant that she was NOT a co-owner but rather a creditor and her name only appeared as such (just like a bank's will on a regular mortgage). He was emphatic that everything he had was to go directly to my sister and I, in halves and his will seems to bear this out. But the title issue worries me - is she a creditor or is she an owner of 1/3 of it now? How could I find this out? I fear that he did not realize what he was doing when he put her name on it.
The other related issue is apparently he had a life insurance policy through the VFW for $5000. When I received the paperwork yesterday, it said that our mother was the beneficiary. I assume that he neglected to call the insurance company and tell them to change it to my sister and I, because that very policy is named in the divorce agreement (which they both signed) and it clearly states that my sister and I are to receive it. We need that money to pay for the funeral. So what has the legal standing, the policy from 1973 which has my mother as beneficiary, or a will drawn up in 1996 that states my sister and I are?
Thank you for any suggestions you may have.
My father passed away 2 weeks ago. I have filed his will and opened the estate, as executrix. My sister and I are in agreement about the division of all personal items. However when our parents divorced 10 years ago, he borrowed money from his sister to buy my mother's half of the property out (2 acres and a doublewide home.) My aunt - who we do not trust at all - insisted on having her name put on the title of the property. The title search performed at the Registry of Wills bears this out. And yet, when she mentioned it years ago and I asked my father about it, he was adamant that she was NOT a co-owner but rather a creditor and her name only appeared as such (just like a bank's will on a regular mortgage). He was emphatic that everything he had was to go directly to my sister and I, in halves and his will seems to bear this out. But the title issue worries me - is she a creditor or is she an owner of 1/3 of it now? How could I find this out? I fear that he did not realize what he was doing when he put her name on it.
The other related issue is apparently he had a life insurance policy through the VFW for $5000. When I received the paperwork yesterday, it said that our mother was the beneficiary. I assume that he neglected to call the insurance company and tell them to change it to my sister and I, because that very policy is named in the divorce agreement (which they both signed) and it clearly states that my sister and I are to receive it. We need that money to pay for the funeral. So what has the legal standing, the policy from 1973 which has my mother as beneficiary, or a will drawn up in 1996 that states my sister and I are?
Thank you for any suggestions you may have.