1-11-2002
DEAR ENZIANME:
How can you reasonably expect to be given adequate advice if there are missing pieces to the puzzle?
How can your sister be an "executor" if no will has been filed? She can not technically called an executor if she has received no legal authority from the court to do so. Whoever fills out the paperwork to apply to the court (whether that is a family member or an attorney) will be appointed the official executor of the estate.
Was the will prepared by an attorney? If so, his/her office should have a copy on file or should be able to produce a replacement copy for submission to probate court. If you reasonably feel that someone in the family is hiding the will or deliberately destroyed it, then someone needs to hire a probate attorney to "force" the will to be produced by whoever has it (probably the sister) or begin probating the estate according to intestate law for your state.
It sounds like your sister is taking control of assets and trying to steal or at least keep everything she is doing in secret, and unless someone else in the family does something about it (opens up the estate in probate court), you may regret it later on.
Normally, it is required that the person's will be filed in probate court within 30 days after the person's death, so if they haven't done so, then something seems a little bit suspicious.
Do you have any idea of how much this estate is worth?
Is there any way to find out if your sister has already claimed his bank accounts, employment benefits, etc. when she really has no legal authority to do it?
SINCERELY,
advisor