momtobemaybe
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New Jersey
I am thinking of placing my baby for adoption and picked an agency last month. they gave me money for rent in november which i used but didn't really ask for. i'm feeling really uncomfortable with this agency. they aren't getting me a lawyer and i didn't get counseling, and the parents they thought i would match good with are already calling me tummy mommy and asking to come to my doctor appointments. i told my worker that i didn't feel comfortable and this was going so fast (i'm only 4 months). she told me it was good i was adopting out because CPS wouldn't like my kids in a small apartment like i have. she also said if i quit them i would have to pay them back the $800 they gave me for rent. i don't have the money to pay them back and i feel even more uncomfortable like they are threatening me. can they make me pay them back if i don't want to use them anymore?
I am thinking of placing my baby for adoption and picked an agency last month. they gave me money for rent in november which i used but didn't really ask for. i'm feeling really uncomfortable with this agency. they aren't getting me a lawyer and i didn't get counseling, and the parents they thought i would match good with are already calling me tummy mommy and asking to come to my doctor appointments. i told my worker that i didn't feel comfortable and this was going so fast (i'm only 4 months). she told me it was good i was adopting out because CPS wouldn't like my kids in a small apartment like i have. she also said if i quit them i would have to pay them back the $800 they gave me for rent. i don't have the money to pay them back and i feel even more uncomfortable like they are threatening me. can they make me pay them back if i don't want to use them anymore?