What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
Our current visitation agreement is the same it's been for six years. I live out of state (GA) with the kids and they travel to see their dad on school breaks, including 5 weeks over the summer.
The problem is, our kids are teenagers now and abiding by the visitation schedule 100% is difficult. Our daughter (15) is going out for the volleyball team and it has a significant demand of time over the summer. There are only a few breaks of roughly a week in which there aren't any workouts/practices over the summer. I have encouraged her to try to work something out with her dad so that she can still play on the team. She would need him to agree to either flying her out three separate times over the summer ($$$), or just having about a week and a half of visitation. I have emailed him about the dilemma, but he has expressed that he is unwilling to sacrifice any of his visitation time for her volleyball workouts... which would make her ineligible for the team.
I should also note that their relationship is volatile (frequent yelling/crying arguments), and she is adamant that she does not want to go at all.
My question is, is there anything I can do, aside from going to court to adjust the visitation schedule, so that she's not required by the court order to spend five weeks of her summer in California? If he is unwilling to accommodate her volleyball schedule and insists on her spending the entire five weeks with him, a court date would not come in time for her to meet the requirements of volleyball anyway. I feel like we're stuck at his mercy.
Thanks in advance.
Our current visitation agreement is the same it's been for six years. I live out of state (GA) with the kids and they travel to see their dad on school breaks, including 5 weeks over the summer.
The problem is, our kids are teenagers now and abiding by the visitation schedule 100% is difficult. Our daughter (15) is going out for the volleyball team and it has a significant demand of time over the summer. There are only a few breaks of roughly a week in which there aren't any workouts/practices over the summer. I have encouraged her to try to work something out with her dad so that she can still play on the team. She would need him to agree to either flying her out three separate times over the summer ($$$), or just having about a week and a half of visitation. I have emailed him about the dilemma, but he has expressed that he is unwilling to sacrifice any of his visitation time for her volleyball workouts... which would make her ineligible for the team.
I should also note that their relationship is volatile (frequent yelling/crying arguments), and she is adamant that she does not want to go at all.
My question is, is there anything I can do, aside from going to court to adjust the visitation schedule, so that she's not required by the court order to spend five weeks of her summer in California? If he is unwilling to accommodate her volleyball schedule and insists on her spending the entire five weeks with him, a court date would not come in time for her to meet the requirements of volleyball anyway. I feel like we're stuck at his mercy.
Thanks in advance.