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debra9us
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What is the name of your state? Il
I currently have custody of my teenage son who just turned 15.
His father has legal visitation.
My son went to live w/his father approximately 1 year ago. This was a mutual agreement between me and his father. No legal moves were made for custody. My son went to live w/his father because he was physically & verbally abusive w/me. I did not report this abuse to the police...but friends and family are aware of the situation. My son ran away from his fathers home about 1 week ago. My son said that his father put him out. The police found him today and we had a family crisis intervention session w/ a counselor. He is temporarily staying w/ a friend. At this session today he was once again verbally abusive and made it know that he was not going to live w/me and follow my rules. He thinks he should be able to run and do whatever he wants. He said he would make my life a living hell. His father at this point says he will "maybe" take him back in. What should I do?? I am fearfull about my son. I do believe that he would harm me if given the chance. I have offered to give his father custody...but he doesnt want to do that at this point. If I relinquish my rights to him I will be turned over to dcfs. I have tried everything. I am at my wits end.
I currently have custody of my teenage son who just turned 15.
His father has legal visitation.
My son went to live w/his father approximately 1 year ago. This was a mutual agreement between me and his father. No legal moves were made for custody. My son went to live w/his father because he was physically & verbally abusive w/me. I did not report this abuse to the police...but friends and family are aware of the situation. My son ran away from his fathers home about 1 week ago. My son said that his father put him out. The police found him today and we had a family crisis intervention session w/ a counselor. He is temporarily staying w/ a friend. At this session today he was once again verbally abusive and made it know that he was not going to live w/me and follow my rules. He thinks he should be able to run and do whatever he wants. He said he would make my life a living hell. His father at this point says he will "maybe" take him back in. What should I do?? I am fearfull about my son. I do believe that he would harm me if given the chance. I have offered to give his father custody...but he doesnt want to do that at this point. If I relinquish my rights to him I will be turned over to dcfs. I have tried everything. I am at my wits end.