What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Califronia
Hello my fellow stressed out parents. I am new to the BB and wanted share a bit about my situation.
I was a silly niave woman that trusted way to much and I can take the knocks for it, but I am past that and on to fixing these issues. I want to change the Possession and Access clause in my order due to it being vauge. Really the only thing it say is that "the parents are to come to a mutual agreement on the times of visitation" and that is a quote. And it did work out when we lived in the same town, but now that he lives in Cali its not working out so well.
We have joint custody, but my child lives with his father. That is not due to him being removed from my custody, but a mutual agreement between him and I.
I wanted to change the clause to six weeks every summer due to the father abruptly moving away to California. I also wanted every other holiday and I also agreed to pay for child coming and going. He has locked down. He will not take my phone calls and I have not taked with my child in weeks.
Since I am poor I have printed out all of the paper work to file an OSC Pro Se, but am getting a lot negative responses to this. My friends and family say that if I do that I run the risk of taking an even bigger loss, but at this point I have nothing to lose. I already can not see or talk to my child.
Anyone know of any reasonabily priced lawyers in Orange County California?
Is six weeks every summer a lot to ask?
Can my ex be held in contempt for sending our child off to a camp/even for a week or more without notifying me?
Can he be held in contempt for not telling me child has changed schools and never even told the school he had a mother?
Can he be held in contempt for not letting me talk to child on the phone?
Can I put a stop to him putting our child in programs during the summer that prevent me from being able to have my visitations?
Does he even have the right to sign our child up for camp and other extracurricular activities without my consent aswell?
I am thinking about calling the school priciple into court to testify that "she was never told that my child had a mother to speak of" as quoted by her. I also have an email from her saying what a surpise it was to find out child had a mother. I also had to call six catholic schools in childs county before I found the school child was actually attending. I told the school I wanted his report cards and wanted to know of any issues he was having in school. I asked to have parent teacher meeting over the phone, but I keep getting the cold shoulder from them. I have been working very hard at playing an active role in my childs life.
I called his doctor to talk to him about my childs health and he did not even know I was my childs mother, he thought it was the woman that took child to the doctor. Then the doctor so conviently forgot how to speak english and would not speak to me at all after that. I am trying, but hitting walls around every corner and it is so very frustrating. So I would like to call him into court as well because I am sure he has not documantation of my exsistance.
Would calling these two people into court help my case?
I do not owe back child support. I know that has no affect on thigs, but I see that question being asked on other threads. Just wanted to cover it. I hope this was enough info to get some answers. If you need more info just ask.
Hello my fellow stressed out parents. I am new to the BB and wanted share a bit about my situation.
I was a silly niave woman that trusted way to much and I can take the knocks for it, but I am past that and on to fixing these issues. I want to change the Possession and Access clause in my order due to it being vauge. Really the only thing it say is that "the parents are to come to a mutual agreement on the times of visitation" and that is a quote. And it did work out when we lived in the same town, but now that he lives in Cali its not working out so well.
We have joint custody, but my child lives with his father. That is not due to him being removed from my custody, but a mutual agreement between him and I.
I wanted to change the clause to six weeks every summer due to the father abruptly moving away to California. I also wanted every other holiday and I also agreed to pay for child coming and going. He has locked down. He will not take my phone calls and I have not taked with my child in weeks.
Since I am poor I have printed out all of the paper work to file an OSC Pro Se, but am getting a lot negative responses to this. My friends and family say that if I do that I run the risk of taking an even bigger loss, but at this point I have nothing to lose. I already can not see or talk to my child.
Anyone know of any reasonabily priced lawyers in Orange County California?
Is six weeks every summer a lot to ask?
Can my ex be held in contempt for sending our child off to a camp/even for a week or more without notifying me?
Can he be held in contempt for not telling me child has changed schools and never even told the school he had a mother?
Can he be held in contempt for not letting me talk to child on the phone?
Can I put a stop to him putting our child in programs during the summer that prevent me from being able to have my visitations?
Does he even have the right to sign our child up for camp and other extracurricular activities without my consent aswell?
I am thinking about calling the school priciple into court to testify that "she was never told that my child had a mother to speak of" as quoted by her. I also have an email from her saying what a surpise it was to find out child had a mother. I also had to call six catholic schools in childs county before I found the school child was actually attending. I told the school I wanted his report cards and wanted to know of any issues he was having in school. I asked to have parent teacher meeting over the phone, but I keep getting the cold shoulder from them. I have been working very hard at playing an active role in my childs life.
I called his doctor to talk to him about my childs health and he did not even know I was my childs mother, he thought it was the woman that took child to the doctor. Then the doctor so conviently forgot how to speak english and would not speak to me at all after that. I am trying, but hitting walls around every corner and it is so very frustrating. So I would like to call him into court as well because I am sure he has not documantation of my exsistance.
Would calling these two people into court help my case?
I do not owe back child support. I know that has no affect on thigs, but I see that question being asked on other threads. Just wanted to cover it. I hope this was enough info to get some answers. If you need more info just ask.
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