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great site,very imformative!!
first let me say the following case really is about a closefriend(that im very concerned about),and not me...lol...i have filed bk myself yrs ago.this gal quit her job a couple yrs ago for reasons that i never fully understood,anyway at the time she and her husband had very good credit,but way too many credit cards.i understand that they did go through some hard times with family matters,and credit cards were used to pay alot of those related bills.but as time went on"sally"(my friend)continued to use all these cards,for everything including cash advances.i think she was even buying all the groceries with credit,as well as all her car payments and even paying monthly credit card payments with other cards....you know those convenience checks they send out plus depositing money into her bank acct from credit cards with the cash advance part of the credit line.does that sound crazy or what?well anyway,i guess the time finally came when the credit ran out.as for the husband,he works but he also has a drinking problem and has either closed a blind eye to the situation or just didnt care whats been going on the past few yrs.so,the bullets began to fire at them from every direction with all those creditors wanting their money.her husband claimed he didnt know about all this debt.the real sad part is sally attemped suicide 2 weeks ago,thank god she survived and has been hospitalized since,but will be coming home soon.
my ? is...has anyone ever heard of such a strange case? she confided to me once that their debt was in excess of $100,000
what is going to happen to her,what can she do when she gets back to begin to fix all this? im afraid for her,since shes had no job for 3 or so yrs,i dont see how a bk could even be considered,or am i wrong? i know she will have to get a job,but she doesnt have the skills to warrant a good enough paying one to even make a small dent in the debt. any advice i could pass on to her would be greatly appreciated,i am truly scared for her.thank you in advance for any help!! by the way we live in indiana
first let me say the following case really is about a closefriend(that im very concerned about),and not me...lol...i have filed bk myself yrs ago.this gal quit her job a couple yrs ago for reasons that i never fully understood,anyway at the time she and her husband had very good credit,but way too many credit cards.i understand that they did go through some hard times with family matters,and credit cards were used to pay alot of those related bills.but as time went on"sally"(my friend)continued to use all these cards,for everything including cash advances.i think she was even buying all the groceries with credit,as well as all her car payments and even paying monthly credit card payments with other cards....you know those convenience checks they send out plus depositing money into her bank acct from credit cards with the cash advance part of the credit line.does that sound crazy or what?well anyway,i guess the time finally came when the credit ran out.as for the husband,he works but he also has a drinking problem and has either closed a blind eye to the situation or just didnt care whats been going on the past few yrs.so,the bullets began to fire at them from every direction with all those creditors wanting their money.her husband claimed he didnt know about all this debt.the real sad part is sally attemped suicide 2 weeks ago,thank god she survived and has been hospitalized since,but will be coming home soon.
my ? is...has anyone ever heard of such a strange case? she confided to me once that their debt was in excess of $100,000
what is going to happen to her,what can she do when she gets back to begin to fix all this? im afraid for her,since shes had no job for 3 or so yrs,i dont see how a bk could even be considered,or am i wrong? i know she will have to get a job,but she doesnt have the skills to warrant a good enough paying one to even make a small dent in the debt. any advice i could pass on to her would be greatly appreciated,i am truly scared for her.thank you in advance for any help!! by the way we live in indiana
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