I live in Florida. I'm a 32yo college educated divorced woman with an 11yo daughter. I am engaged to a 42yo divorced man with 2 kids who is in the banking industry. We own a home together under both of our names but other than that, our finances and banking are basically separate for now. I have good credit and earn over $60K/yr. He does not have good credit (due to divorce and bad investment decisions) but had been earning over $100K for many years due to the banking industry. The house we purchased is above my price range but we bought it based on our combined incomes.
He was hired by a major bank about 2yrs ago. He was given a sign-in bonus in the form of a loan for over $300K when he started which required him to stay with the bank for at least four years(among other things). Less than a year into the job he was let go due to low performance and the bank is now litigating to get most of their money back. My fiancé thinks they don't have a good case because the terminology on the contract didn't specify a sales goal. I haven’t actually read the contract myself but I think he's delusional if he thinks he's going to beat the bank. He has hired an attorney and says he will do "whatever it takes" to ensure that he doesn't have to pay them back even if it means declaring bankruptcy. The case will probably take a while to be resolved and we will be married by the time it is finallized.
They filled a U5 against him and he was forced to go into business on his own (which isn't going very well yet). Most of the money is gone since he has had to use it to pay the bills since he was let go.
I love him because he is a good man in all other aspects but I think he's bad with money and I don't trust him with my credit or my financial future which I have worked very hard for.
My question is, how will his problems affect me and my credit once we are married? What can I do to protect myself?
Thanks,
Donna
He was hired by a major bank about 2yrs ago. He was given a sign-in bonus in the form of a loan for over $300K when he started which required him to stay with the bank for at least four years(among other things). Less than a year into the job he was let go due to low performance and the bank is now litigating to get most of their money back. My fiancé thinks they don't have a good case because the terminology on the contract didn't specify a sales goal. I haven’t actually read the contract myself but I think he's delusional if he thinks he's going to beat the bank. He has hired an attorney and says he will do "whatever it takes" to ensure that he doesn't have to pay them back even if it means declaring bankruptcy. The case will probably take a while to be resolved and we will be married by the time it is finallized.
They filled a U5 against him and he was forced to go into business on his own (which isn't going very well yet). Most of the money is gone since he has had to use it to pay the bills since he was let go.
I love him because he is a good man in all other aspects but I think he's bad with money and I don't trust him with my credit or my financial future which I have worked very hard for.
My question is, how will his problems affect me and my credit once we are married? What can I do to protect myself?
Thanks,
Donna